caramel c Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Being misunderstood and judged. Link to post Share on other sites
silic0ntoad Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Her Laziness. American Idol. All the other worthless brain gelatinizing shyte she watched on TV. Her lying to her parents about smoking, and then covering up to them- for christ sakes we are 26. Her pickiness with food. The way she treated the dog. Constant conversations about work. Her indifference in the sack (She would never try new things... BORING.) Her trash emo music. Her chameleon personality Her unwillingness to do anything with me outside- go to the beach for a weekend, etc. Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovecake Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Lies Constant Bad Moods His constant complaining Not ever communicating with me Irresponsibility Boredom Always having to do things he wants Being put down His stupid family His stupid friends His man crush on his best friend Body hair Having to remind him to shower and brush his teeth Constantly being asked “what’s for dinner?” Intolerance Stupidity Watching him do stupid stuff to impress his friends and embarrass me Drinking Laziness Having my birthdays ignored His hideous turkey neck His razor burn Passive Aggressiveness His friends Watching Sports Picking up his dirty clothes His intolerance of my cats Walking on egg shells Him constantly telling me I’m not serious enough while telling me to lighten up at the same time. His lack of commitment to anything and anyone His worship of his cheating father The constant burping The terrible hair that even strangers on the street would make fun of His porn addiction His constant looking for someone better Him constantly pointing out hot girls His hatred of women Never feeling safe because he was a complete coward Him never sticking up for me His misogyny and chauvinism Always being tested by him Always being dismissed by him Him always being inconsiderate Having my buttons pushed just for the fun of it His bad timing Constantly Waiting for the day we break up Link to post Share on other sites
Surfer Girl Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 I won't miss "I need space" or I just want to chill I won't miss whether or not your going to call back I won't miss "I don't want to talk about it" I won't miss the shock of discovering your deciet and lies I won't miss the push/pull dance Link to post Share on other sites
moo Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 The way she treated the dog. If she abused or neglected it, please report her to the nearest ASPCA, SPCA, or even the police. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
moo Posted August 21, 2009 Share Posted August 21, 2009 Lies Constant Bad Moods His constant complaining Not ever communicating with me Irresponsibility Boredom Always having to do things he wants Being put down His stupid family His stupid friends His man crush on his best friend Body hair Having to remind him to shower and brush his teeth Constantly being asked “what’s for dinner?” Intolerance Stupidity Watching him do stupid stuff to impress his friends and embarrass me Drinking Laziness Having my birthdays ignored His hideous turkey neck His razor burn Passive Aggressiveness His friends Watching Sports Picking up his dirty clothes His intolerance of my cats Walking on egg shells Him constantly telling me I’m not serious enough while telling me to lighten up at the same time. His lack of commitment to anything and anyone His worship of his cheating father The constant burping The terrible hair that even strangers on the street would make fun of His porn addiction His constant looking for someone better Him constantly pointing out hot girls His hatred of women Never feeling safe because he was a complete coward Him never sticking up for me His misogyny and chauvinism Always being tested by him Always being dismissed by him Him always being inconsiderate Having my buttons pushed just for the fun of it His bad timing Constantly Waiting for the day we break up YIKES. Be glad you got out of that. Link to post Share on other sites
georgia girl Posted August 22, 2009 Share Posted August 22, 2009 I won't miss: - his body image issues and calling himself fat - his obsession with triathlons - his nosing into my exercise programs (I'm a runner) and trying to compete with me - his tardiness - his obsession with text messaging - his chip on his shoulder that life wasn't easy for him when all he did was take the easy way out - his feeling that life was easy for me when I worked my ass off - his selfishness - his crazy food tastes - HIS LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY AND RESPONSIBILITY; he could point it out in other people but never had an ounce of self-reflection ... wait, I'm just getting on a roll... - his unwillingness to change - his unwilligness to fight fair - his unwillingness to see another person's point of view - his projecting all of his own feelings onto me and then accusing me of thinking bad things - his inability to make a decision which goes directly back to his lack of accountability - if he didn't choose then how can he be responsible - his selfishness and self-centeredness; THE WHOLE WORLD DOESN'T REVOLVE AROUND YOUR EMOTIONS - his unwillingness to fix his fear of commitment - his laziness to fix that fear of commitment because he'd have to face some hard truths - HIS ALTER EGO... you're nearly 40... you have an alter ego????? Okay, my spleen is vented (for now) Link to post Share on other sites
Nowhere Man Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 Oh where to start……….Dear Wife I won’t miss….. -The Lies. Then when they were pointed out just continue to repeat them as it gave them any greater validity. -The way you would say that I had to trust you to make our relationship work, knowing as you spoke these words you were still lying and having the intension to continue lying again and again. -Your inability to confront difficult or stressful situations and resolve them in an adult way. -Your inability to negotiate and come to a compromise about anything. The stupid belief that your word was final, which was arrived at without taking into consideration my views or opinions. -Your lack of respect for my opinion on anything. -Yet more lies and dishonesty about the original lies. - Your lack of real direction, commitment or focus in life or love, and the destruction and chaos it brought into mine. -Your complete and utter selfishness. - Your complete disrespect. How you used me and abused my good nature. Keeping me as a safe person to be with and provide for you financially whilst you used some of that money to communicate with and see someone else. -Never taking responsibility for your behaviour and your pathetic attempts to make me responsible for the things YOU did. -Your irrational and mean spirited attitude toward my family although they showed you nothing but love and kindness. Making it nearly impossible for us to go and visit them and then crying at my father’s funeral. What a selfish hypocrite. -Your laziness, being content with doing the minimum that you could. In life and in love. -Your ability to speak at length of my shortcomings and highlight faults in my personality and fabricate some when you ran out. Hell, look in the god damn mirror. What do you see? Are you happy with yourself? Is that a good honest person with their personal integrity intact looking back at you? Tell me did I ever lie to you, cheat on you, deceive you, take our money (that I earned) and go spend it going out with someone else? No, then what makes me such a bad person and you and your actions ok? You have tried to trample me into the dirt. But, it is you in the dirt. I am looking down on you with a mixture of sorrow and pity. The only things I feel bad about are how could I miss-judge a person so badly and why have I tolerated it so long? Why have I done this to myself. I should have got out ages ago. Like at the first signs of your selfishness. Link to post Share on other sites
heatherb16 Posted August 23, 2009 Share Posted August 23, 2009 Stressing when ever we had an argument. Constantly worrying that one word I may say, may set him off, which would lead to a break up. Soo, Pretty much the constant worry. Link to post Share on other sites
Ilovecake Posted August 24, 2009 Share Posted August 24, 2009 YIKES. Be glad you got out of that. I'm getting there. Link to post Share on other sites
Author t0ri Posted March 31, 2010 Author Share Posted March 31, 2010 About a year later, I don't miss one single thing about my ex! Just wanted to bump this thread, as it made me think twice about what I was pining over back then. Link to post Share on other sites
MrsPeaSoup Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 oh what a wonderfull thread this is! Robert, I won't miss: -You ALLWAYS being right on EVERYTHING -Your ongoing talk about technology bla bla bla - Especially your inability to understand that other people think otherwise than you do oh Robert, THIS I reallllyyy won't miss: - You allways backfiring the things I told you in confidence or in my weakness.. Such as when I told you I really didn't like you working all summer vacation long and you said that you understood that and you'd think about it! Later in a fight you again pulled that argument saying 'that I was stupid to think that it was so bad that he'd work all summer long'... What you didn't realised was that that summer holiday would be the ONLY time of the year that I could go to you whenever we wanted... Stupid... Glad that I won't be spending those holidays with you anymore.. GO WORK! Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 Lowly, I dont miss your flamboyant farting your put downs your inability to see anothers side Your decipt your constant lies Your face your fat belly, your mess ironing your "expensive" shirts Your obsession with buying rubbish IT stuff that never works your inability to complete anything. Confession from me lowly............i didnt help you with you renovation of the tryumph because you were nasty to work with. I laughed because nobody else wanted to help you either. I finally wont miss one aspect of you. You are probably one of the most unpleasant people around to live with. Your a bully, a cheat and a liar. I wish you no joy. Nobby xx Link to post Share on other sites
lost_one_01 Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 J what I won't miss about you..you are 46..you need to grow up - your lies and deceit - blaming the whole world for your problems - your family issues you refuse to seek help on - your damn moodiness - using my kind nature..knowing I would do anything for you - your rotting insides..your outside hides that so well - sucking the life out of me - projecting all your lies and turning it around on others - the drama queen you are Yeah you can hate me..call me names. You know what though? You are only person that thinks of me that way. I can look in mirror and can say I am a good human being..what do you see? Or is it that you don't see anything at all? I wasted 4 years..and as much as you hurt me I know I will never have to deal with you again. Link to post Share on other sites
nobmagnet Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 J what I won't miss about you..you are 46..you need to grow up - your lies and deceit - blaming the whole world for your problems - your family issues you refuse to seek help on - your damn moodiness - using my kind nature..knowing I would do anything for you - your rotting insides..your outside hides that so well - sucking the life out of me - projecting all your lies and turning it around on others - the drama queen you are Yeah you can hate me..call me names. You know what though? You are only person that thinks of me that way. I can look in mirror and can say I am a good human being..what do you see? Or is it that you don't see anything at all? I wasted 4 years..and as much as you hurt me I know I will never have to deal with you again. :love::love:here here darling nobby xxx Link to post Share on other sites
lost_one_01 Posted March 31, 2010 Share Posted March 31, 2010 Thank you nobby xxx have to add to list - J your constant pulling me in/pushing me away - most important was you of all people coming into my life and ****ing with my heart and head! Link to post Share on other sites
Kaniut Posted April 3, 2010 Share Posted April 3, 2010 (edited) Your terrible French kissing skills. You slobbered all over me like a Saint Bernard! My feelings of suffocation because we never did anything or went anywhere Your relationship baggage Your nauseating pretentiousness Your back-handed compliments The fact that you ended up being so mind-numbingly boring The fact that you sit around and condemn sweat shops all while you wear your designer underwear and shoes The fact that you underestimated me The fact that you held me back This is me being nice I was warned that I was wasting my time (ironically, by the only person who still loves you) because I was so much better than you. I didn’t listen to that person but now I realize that I truly am Really though, I should be thanking you for dragging me down. Since then, I bounced back by getting in shape, losing weight, finding amazingly loving and supportive friends, and turning your friends against you p.s. I met someone else. Edited April 3, 2010 by Kaniut Link to post Share on other sites
Female Tech Posted April 4, 2010 Share Posted April 4, 2010 Things I won't miss about you BR: - How you always built up my hopes with plans then never once do what you said we'd do. - Breaking every promise you ever made me, even those you said I could "take to the bank" and that you meant more than any other one. - How you got mad if I didn't get excited about your plans or promises as I knew you'd never keep them but you'd get upset with me for not believing you'd do them. - You always had an excuse that was so far fetched no one could believe them. - You always said I was the most important person in your life but apparently in your list of priorities that person always came last behind every family member, friend and distant acquaintance. - If I ever pointed out facts proving you lied to me, you'd always turn it around to yell at me and turn your back on me saying not to contact you until you calmed down as if everything was my fault you lied. - You were ALWAYS late, never ONCE in almost 7 years did you ever show up on time. - When you wouldn't make a date/time you never called, emailed, text to let me know;you'd always assume I'd figure it out eventually that you weren't showing up even though u knew I would be waiting for you. - VERY inconsiderate! - Selfish - The lies, upon lies, upon lies you always thought you were too smart to get caught telling. - If I'd catch you in a lie you'd try and make me feel guilty for saying you lied and insult me for thinking I 'knew' better than what you were telling me was true. - You'd go days with no contact then email as if nothing happened or was wrong, never offering up a reason why you disappeared. - Telling me you were an open book and wanted me to know everything about you, then often when I'd ask what you had been up to you'd tell me I wasn't your mother and you didn't have to ask my permission. - You were never there for me in difficult times. You'd promise to be there for me then couldn't be reached. Once you told me it was because you couldn't handle me sad. Thanks a lot. - When things seemed to be going best, you'd always get mad about nothing out of nowhere. You need drama to be happy. - You'd go out of your way to build up hope in me over things yet always let me down and disappointed me. - Hiding things from me that you knew would upset me instead of just NOT doing them in the first place! - Not once in all this time have you remembered my birthday.. ever! I'm sure there are more.... but this is a good start. - FT Link to post Share on other sites
Tamia78 Posted April 4, 2010 Share Posted April 4, 2010 Your terrible French kissing skills. You slobbered all over me like a Saint Bernard! My feelings of suffocation because we never did anything or went anywhere Your relationship baggage Your nauseating pretentiousness Your back-handed compliments The fact that you ended up being so mind-numbingly boring The fact that you sit around and condemn sweat shops all while you wear your designer underwear and shoes The fact that you underestimated me The fact that you held me back This is me being nice I was warned that I was wasting my time (ironically, by the only person who still loves you) because I was so much better than you. I didn’t listen to that person but now I realize that I truly am Really though, I should be thanking you for dragging me down. Since then, I bounced back by getting in shape, losing weight, finding amazingly loving and supportive friends, and turning your friends against you p.s. I met someone else. This TOTALLY just made my night! N- I won't miss how you were ALWAYS the victim in every one of your relationships. I won't miss how everything was always my fault. When it was your fault, it was still my fault somehow. I won't miss all of your excuses about how you couldn't do anything you said you were gonna do. Funny it was always money. (but you can buy a 42" tv, new PS3 games and all of your protein shakes and vitamins that you NEEDED) I won't miss the way you lied about little things that didn't even matter. I won't miss your step-by-step plan for me to be a better gf. I won't miss the way you never follow through with things you at first REALLY want (still have that 2nd dog? or did you get rid of him like you did the 1st one you really, REALLY wanted?) I won't miss your resorting to name-calling when I said something that hit home. Ugh. --T Link to post Share on other sites
HeavenOrHell Posted April 4, 2010 Share Posted April 4, 2010 The way he sounded cold when he was grumpy. Lack of patience sometimes. Link to post Share on other sites
Kaniut Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 This TOTALLY just made my night! N- I won't miss how you were ALWAYS the victim in every one of your relationships. I won't miss how everything was always my fault. When it was your fault, it was still my fault somehow. I won't miss all of your excuses about how you couldn't do anything you said you were gonna do. Funny it was always money. (but you can buy a 42" tv, new PS3 games and all of your protein shakes and vitamins that you NEEDED) I won't miss the way you lied about little things that didn't even matter. I won't miss your step-by-step plan for me to be a better gf. I won't miss the way you never follow through with things you at first REALLY want (still have that 2nd dog? or did you get rid of him like you did the 1st one you really, REALLY wanted?) I won't miss your resorting to name-calling when I said something that hit home. Ugh. --T Glad I could make your night Tamia! Link to post Share on other sites
EyeAlone Posted April 21, 2010 Share Posted April 21, 2010 JR-- Oh where, oh where do I begin.... -The fact that you never washed your greasy face before going to bed -Always listening to music when I tried to talk to you on the phone -Drinking -Selfishness -Lies -Your arguments over pointless things in life that cannot be changed -It was always my fault -You always ran too fast and never went at my pace -Bad taste in clothes -Impulsive shopping -Your DYSFUNCTIONAL family.... -Your sister talks way too much and spends too much time in the bathroom doing her hair and makeup when no one really cares how she looks -Your brother is on an ego-trip -I can't stand your sister-in-law's accent...reminds me of a really annoying girl in my class -Your parents have a weird relationship...now I know where you get your relationship skills! -Your parents are so closed-minded -Your mom....need I say more? -Your crappy teenager years that should have been a red flag to me -The fact that you lived with your parents until you were 26 years old...you are so socially stunted -You have no humility when it comes to your "intelligence" -You can't converse with people you have just met -Your complaints about my driving ability although you seem to forget that you have gotten in how many accidents??? How many tickets?? -Cutting me off in conversations -Always changing the subject when I was trying to have a serious conversation -No, we all haven't seen all the movies that you have so stop thinking everyone is inferior to you -The same goes with music. Just because you know about a band that I don't know of doesn't make you special -I don't care if your hair is curly, you needed to wash it more -Your indecisiveness in everything from careers to relationships -You have horrible grammar -Your essays suck -Your apartment is so messy and it looks like a 14 year old boy lives there...but I guess that fits your personality -You would always yell at me for not cleaning the apartment when we lived together but now that you moved and lived alone you can't clean up after yourself -The fact that you're in your 30s and yet you still haven't "figured things out" -Always waking up in the middle of the night to eat -Way too attached to your twin-sized bed -Have no clue what NC means -Hated cats -Took horrible pictures -Never took my side But most of all... -Broke up with me THE END JR, THE END. Link to post Share on other sites
dan_the_man Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 With my ex, the good outweighs the bad. But the bad always makes me feel relieved that the relationship ended. I won't miss her: Selfishness Her constant nagging - I don't mind being nagged now and then, but not nearly every minute of the time I am with you, DAMN. Very low sex drive - Now when I say low, I mean very low. She told me once that in her past relationships she use to dread having sex. Which might explain why her past relationships never lasted more then 4 months, cause in the end she told me they always dumped her. Link to post Share on other sites
jlr Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Dear K, I don't miss feeling like I was never good enough for you. Every gift. Every letter. Every word. Every song. Every touch. You always had something to say about. Something more I could have done. Well, you know what? **** you for that. That hurt like hell. I hope the guy you're with now is perfect, because otherwise, he's doomed. Peace, E Link to post Share on other sites
ALombard Posted May 11, 2010 Share Posted May 11, 2010 Lets see... I WILL NOT MISS! -How you always turned things around on me. -How overly emotional you were! (no one needs to cry over things like not having their heels with them) -Your utter lack of self confidence. (even when I told you I thought you looked great you still didn't believe me) -Your ability to completely detach yourself from me 3 times in a year -The fact that we only had sex MAYBE once a week -The constant drinking -The fact that at 21 you're still in the same Junior college classes that you were in when you were 19. -The fact that you couldn't hold down a job for the life of you. -Your constant nagging about if we were coming apart eventhough you were the one who ended it. -The lies and the cheating. (that's right I know about everything you did behind my back) -Your overly emotional, closeted father. -The constant drain on my bank account you were. -The fact that one small thing would turn you into a raving bitch. -The constant fighting that was really all your fault. -The fact that you were so two faced. -The fact that you never took off your make up when we went to bed. -Having to pick you up off the couch when you would pass out because you were too drunk. -Your lack of maturity, GROW THE **** UP! -The fact that you're with someone else and still tell me you love me. GO TO HELL! I am so much better off without you. I feel so much more alive and free now! 5 years? HA I'm glad I never proposed. Link to post Share on other sites
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