confusedcookie Posted May 22, 2009 Share Posted May 22, 2009 so, we're broken up and nc for 2 weeks not, but there's this one thing i can't get out of my head. we live in the same building, he is one floor above mine, and his god sister also lives in the same building. i was living with him, but we had problems after coming back from a vacation, so i moved back downstairs for 2 days, then on the third, i was clearing my stuff out of his house and i found a bracelet near the bed, under the computer stand. i asked him, whose is it, he said he didn't know, and then finally said it was his god sister's. i asked, how did it get there?, he said he didn't know, and then finally he said that one night when we were on vacation she slept over on our bed bc she was using the computer and got too tired to leave afterwards. weird points: - she has the key to the apartment, but she doesn't have the fob to get up to the level, so apparently, she took the stairs. she lives on the 3rd floor, my ex lived on the 22. - would you want to sleep in someone else's bed, when your bed is just an elevator ride away? - this whole just doesn't seem believable we are broken up, but sometimes, you just want to know, were they faithful to you, you don't want to be left in the dark. so, do i have reason to have suspicion? Link to post Share on other sites
JustLooking123 Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 It doesn't matter. You are broken up. Will any good come from knowing that she cheated on you? You are just prolonging the pain of the break-up by dwelling on this. Drop it and move on. Link to post Share on other sites
MichelleS1983 Posted May 23, 2009 Share Posted May 23, 2009 Cookie, it sure doesn't sound too plausible that someone merely an elevator ride away would choose to sleep in another bed. That's just creepy. It's quite possible his relative lost her bracelet one of the times she was there to use the computer, unless you're a scrupulous housekeeper and would have found it way before the day you finally did after vacation. But no, the sleeping in your bed story doesn't make sense. And when things don't make sense, they're generally not true. Link to post Share on other sites
Author confusedcookie Posted May 24, 2009 Author Share Posted May 24, 2009 i can kind of believe the sleeping in someone else's bed, she's weird like that... her husband went on a vacation and she's been sleeping over at her friend's house, so i can kind of believe that part. the part i don't believe is that since she's a smoker and super lazy person, she would never walk up 20+ flight of stairs, for me, that's the most unbelievable part. Also, the doors from the stairways are locked, only people with first generation keys from their apartments can open the stairway doors, if you change your lock, then you can't open from the stairway. How does she know that the key from his house is a first generation key? someone so lazy, do you think she would walk 20+ flights of stairs just to try to see if the door would open. this question is still driving me crazy... i really want to casually ask her about it, without making it seem suspicious... like casually ask, "oh sorry, i heard that last time you had no fob to (ex's) house, and you had to walk up?" and see how she reacts... Link to post Share on other sites
LucreziaBorgia Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 The simplest answer is usually the correct one: he escorted a girl up to his place using his fob/keys, and her bracelet got there because she took it off before playtime followed by sleeptime, and the lame excuses he gave are clearly lies. I would wager it isn't even the godsister. What to do? Since you are broken up you may never find out the truth, and your best bet is to put it behind you. Link to post Share on other sites
missdependant Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 Story sounds like a load of hogwash, IMO he probably did cheat. But why worry about it now? You're broken up. He's not your concern anymore; the relationship is now void. Work on moving onto bigger, better things instead of nitpicking at everything from a relationship that is now over. Link to post Share on other sites
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