wesley52 Posted May 24, 2009 Share Posted May 24, 2009 I'm a senior in high school. Last year there was this girl in class and I'm almost positive she liked me. (She used to flirt a lot and write I Love You on my papers.) Of course I'm an idiot and didn't do anything about it and towards the end of the year we didn't talk as much. Now it's towards the end of my senior year and I don't have her in any classes and I rarely see her in the halls. But I got a job at Target and I see her there a lot. We don't talk though. I just make I contact and then keep going. Does she still like me? I always want to say hi but it's almost as if she avoids me and i puss out. I think even if she's not crushing on me now she at least was attracted to me before and so still would be attracted to me. I'm a pretty shy person and she's not so I don't understand why she doesn't at least say hi herself. I think if i said hi she would respond positively but i don't know if she still likes me and i could ask her out. Please help. Link to post Share on other sites
Errant Posted May 25, 2009 Share Posted May 25, 2009 The bad news is that she probably thought from how you treated her originally that you weren't interested, and her interest in you waned. But the good news is that you've still got the opportunity to stay in contact. The only way to know for sure is to try, so talk to her, say hi, ask what she's been up to lately if you haven't talked in a while, that sort of thing. How that conversation goes will tell you a lot more about how she feels than we can. Link to post Share on other sites
windows Posted May 28, 2009 Share Posted May 28, 2009 similar thing happened to me. a girl was certainly crushing on me (hell friends were gossipping) but i played dumb and did nothing. mainly because i wasnt interested and didnt know how to exactly show her that. i feigned ignorance long enough and i think she became fustrated and hurt, something i wish now that i could have remedied. you're going to have to go out of your way if you want that back. dont ask her out with you on the get go; you need time for her to re-evaluate her feelings for you. just talk to her again. Link to post Share on other sites
Author wesley52 Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 similar thing happened to me. a girl was certainly crushing on me (hell friends were gossipping) but i played dumb and did nothing. mainly because i wasnt interested and didnt know how to exactly show her that. i feigned ignorance long enough and i think she became fustrated and hurt, something i wish now that i could have remedied. you're going to have to go out of your way if you want that back. dont ask her out with you on the get go; you need time for her to re-evaluate her feelings for you. just talk to her again. Interesting. Do you think if I talk to her and give her some impression that I'm interested her feelings will come back? Or is it possible that she'll think, "I gave him a chance." (I don't think she would say that because she's not the conceded type but she might just think it didn't work the first time, why try again.) Link to post Share on other sites
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