Island Girl Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 and...that was NO mistake!haha.. He knew what he was doing! How long you guys been married for now? Oh yeah -- he knew what he was doing. But the girls he normally met would just take it and be thrilled he talked to them or thankful he asked for their number. His cousin's wife gave me the scoop long after we got together about these stupid girls. They gave him money, their cars, their bodies, etc. - ridiculous. I was the only one who wasn't about to be "one of many" or feel in any way grateful - to me HE was the one who was blessed to get my number (and to be honest I thought he'd be fun for a couple weeks and would get fired). We've been together for 8 1/2 years and married for almost 3. We have stayed together against all odds and are bonded in a way I didn't dream possible. It really is unbelievable movie type love. BUT I know and he knows we are together because we want to be. Either one of us would walk if the other took advantage of the love given - once addressed if it didn't change we'd walk. You lost yourself in that relationship. You lost track of yourself and became caught up. It won't happen again. Now you'll see the warning signs and you will not lose yourself in a relationship again. I hope you find a girl who appreciates you in all ways who is STELLAR!! ;) Link to post Share on other sites
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