Dada Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 First of all thank you all you guys for reading my story..... It started 2 weeks ago where i met this girl in the university bar which on that date we have a conversation and i think i began to like her.... the dayafter i went to see her in her room and we talked for about 5-6 hrs and on the next day she went to my room and we had a conversation for 4-5 hrs as well, we never talked about whether i flirt with her or not and i can saw it in her eyes (which looked natural) that she feel sth special with me.... on the third day she asked me to go to her room again and i of course went to, we had a conversation again and in the middle of our talking, her friend call her to go out at the university bar which she invited me as well and i haven't got my wallet with me so i said i will see her there in 15 mins which at first she even told me she will wait for me but i said i will see her there later.......the problem was, on that day the bar is full and i couldn't enter so i came back to my room and thought of speaking to her later. But after that day i don't know what has happend...i saw her again at the uni but we were in a hurry at that time so we had a formal greeting and after that i sent her SMS which she replied me back and i told her that i will go to see her but she said maybe the other day cos she had to read books....after that i contacted her again both by phone and SMS but she didn't seem to be interested in talking to me like before sometimes she said "talk to you later i have to do this or that".... and even worse was that i thought she saw me once in the library but she didn't even greet me and pretend she didn't see me (she didn't know that i knew this but i'm sure she saw me sitting near her)so when the second week passed i stop contacting her for 2 days now and don't know what to do next.... one thing that kept me nervous is that, i don't know what happened cos we're just starting to know each other which ok. if she don't like me it shouldn't happen this fast....i saw her walking with a guy but not sure he's her friend or more than that.....and now i'm quite sure that i like her very much.....do you think that 1. Why she pretended that she didn't see me i mean if she don't like me anymore at least she should did something like formal greeting. 2. Do i still have a chance? and what should i do next? Sorry for you that i post such a long message 1. Link to post Share on other sites
Reckless Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 One question: Did you explain clearly to her why you didn't meet her in the bar that night? She could be thinking you were giving her the brush off and is beating you to the gun. She could have felt you didn't really like her and could be rejecting you before you do her (you know the motto in love? Do unto others. First). Anyway, one thing's for sure, if you've had 5/6 hour conversations, you should be able to ask her (not us) what happened .... R. Link to post Share on other sites
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