Dreamrunner Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 I was just wondering, do others have a sort of "glass slipper" when looking for a potential mate, something that can make or break the deal? Any kind of idiosyncrasies or traits that makes them more attractive than if they didn't have said trait? For me, I have this one really stupid joke, and if they laugh at it, I'm hooked. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 I have to admit that at least one person had also been fond of the 'Horton Hears a Who' theory of the universe and that may well have been the tide-turner for me More seriously, if someone says he thinks there is still much to learn in life and about life, I am very interested. People who think they know it all, no matter what their age, are boring. I plan to learn and explore 'till they close the lid on the box and I want to have someone who I can share that with. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 26, 2003 Share Posted October 26, 2003 If they don't unlock the car door for me when I let them in first and walk around to my side. Link to post Share on other sites
Sunrain Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 What attracts me is a man who shows he really cares. I find that a big turn on. A man who is sensitive to women's issues is so cool, too. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 If they don't love animals and are not a dog person they are OUT! That is the first thing I always asked. I went out with a guy once and we had a great time, everything clicked. Then when we were talking he said he had a dog when he was a kid - a big dumb mutt that stayed in the back yard because he kept jumping out of the back of his pickup. I told him my feelings about dogs and said I felt sorry for him that he is missing so much, thanked him for the evening and never saw him again. My next deal breaker is drinking. A casual drink once in a while is okay, but I didn't want to take a chance with someone who got drunk regularly or might be an alcoholic. Illegal drugs -- bye bye! Pornography - bye bye! Link to post Share on other sites
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