A L E X Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 Okay, so I am having trouble getting a girlfriend. I can make almost any girl laugh and keep her entertained and in a conversation, but I just have no experience in going from just this funny guy to boyfriend. I think it may have something to do with me previously being kind of chubby. I'm 5'11 and I used to be about 250 pounds, but high school sports(3 sports)brought me down about 40-50 pounds. I have no problem getting girls to go hang out and stuff i just can never get into a serious relationship which is what i'm looking for. Any advice?
amaysngrace Posted May 29, 2009 Posted May 29, 2009 Yeah quit thinking of yourself as the fat funny guy and think of yourself as the hot guy with a great personality.
kostoronto Posted June 1, 2009 Posted June 1, 2009 Yeah quit thinking of yourself as the fat funny guy and think of yourself as the hot guy with a great personality. This. I stopped thinking of myself as the lanky funny one and the next day I had a girl all over me at a party. If you believe you're the man, someone else will likely think so too.
oscakool Posted June 4, 2009 Posted June 4, 2009 It's completely true, mindset is everything. I tell guys to start seeing themselves of who they want to be and the next thing you know, these guys end up becoming that guy! It's a really cool transformation to watch.
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