Does someone's sex drive increase after infidelity?

[innocentbabe45]

Hi it's me again who months ago posted about my friend getting caught with the MW Dec. 20. Anyways the girlfriend and I are friends now as well. I was wrong for judging her before as I gotten to know her better and she's not a superficial as I had thought. I guess I was jealous before, which is typically for us women. Afterall he was my high school crush (I got rejected and was only seen as a friend, oh well).

 

Anyways I'm doing my best in helping them both out. Ok from what I heard is that the girlfriend has lately inciated intimacy and as we were talking, she explains on how she wants it everyday if possible and that before the cheating it was not like that.

 

Does that happen after infidelity, that the one that got cheated now wants it more often?

I'm just wondering because I still don't see how that can be possible. I think I heard once about creating new memories, I'm not sure.

[alphamale]

Does that happen after infidelity, that the one that got cheated now wants it more often?

I'm just wondering because I still don't see how that can be possible. I think I heard once about creating new memories, I'm not sure.

you better check your sources...

[innocentbabe45]

you better check your sources...

I don't really know nothing about getting cheated on nor the aftermaths as I never had that done on me. I'm deducing from little common sense I may have on that topic.

[rya794]

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Does that happen after infidelity, that the one that got cheated now wants it more often?

I'm just wondering because I still don't see how that can be possible. I think I heard once about creating new memories, I'm not sure.

 

I know it seems weird but this was my experience exactly. my fiance cheated on me, i found out, i thought we could work through it and for some reason i wanted sex all the time. actually i think i know what the reason was, i think i wanted to feel like she was attracted to me and in love with me. but needless to say i was still very interested in sex. i dont think creating new memories was an issue for me at all, i just wanted to feel like i held a special place in her heart.

[Randombrad]

Totally the opposite to what happened for me, 4 months in and I have to practically force myself to do it

[innocentbabe45]

4 months in and I have to practically force myself to do it

Sorry to hear. I think this is what the girlfriend must be going through right now. If not then she must be a woman of steel (someone of golden heart) I don't know.

 

I wouldn't handle that. There is no way I would want to touch my man if I knew he had another woman wrapped on all over his body. Even worst me actually catching him in act. No that would be too much for me. If knowing already about the infidelity is bad enough, then I can imagine with the visuals/images going on in your head of that day. So I don't know, I feel I'll never completely understand neither my friend's nor his girlfriend view on this whole thing they're going through.

[mark982]

after i found out my ex cheated, i just couldn't get it up for her anymore,it seemed like the beauty she had just disappeared.