Should i ask her out ?

[minniezz]

Well,I ve been talking to this girl for 2~3 years i think,we dont talk much but its really coincident whenever i fought with my ex ( yep i just broke up) and this girl showed up and talk to me.

So ive been single for a while now...Uhm so im wondering if i should ask this girl out or not ? It really bothers me cz shes studying abroad in UK and im in US >.>.

Can any experts gimme some advices pls ? thx

[Rollercoasterr]

If it bothers you, no. LDR's are hard, and if it's bothering you now then you're in for one hell of a ride once you and her get together. With my fiance there was no being bothered, or questioning. We just KNEW we had to be together. And that was the end of the story. We are what we are, and we're a package deal to everyone, even though he lives 1000 miles away from me and across a country border. I have never questioned my love for him. You need to have the same kind of thing going on if you're thinking about an LDR. LDR's are not for the faint of heart, and you'll see that if you stick around for a while. We're all a strong bunch of people, even though we get weak sometimes. Think about it for a while before acting on it.

 

And if she just showed up recently and you ranted to her about your ex, that would make her a rebound and that's not cool.

 

Good luck!

[Lucky_One]

How do you ask her out if she is in a different country?

 

And are you sure that you just aren't using her as a convenient way to get over your GF like you did before - which really isn't so coincidental, actually.

[minniezz]

Well thx for the help =] appreciated but uhm,i dont really talk to her about my relation and such.Well maybe you are right uhm,i prolly used her as something to get over my gf but back to last 2 years,i did have feeling for her but after that she went to study abroad so w.e >.>