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[julie]

i just broke up with my boyfriend. he has always been really controling and possessive. i feel like i've done the right thing for me but he says he's changed this time and i shouldn't need time to think anything over i don't feel that's fair. i have gave him time so many times in the last five years to think things over even though he has cheated on me and hurt me so many times it isn't even funny. someone tell me if they think i'm crazy for needing some time to see how i really feel about him and our relationship.

[Rachel]

You're definately not crazy. I think you are doing the right thing. It's amazing how he seems to have changed overnight. Don't believe him, especially if he's lied to you before.

i just broke up with my boyfriend. he has always been really controling and possessive. i feel like i've done the right thing for me but he says he's changed this time and i shouldn't need time to think anything over i don't feel that's fair. i have gave him time so many times in the last five years to think things over even though he has cheated on me and hurt me so many times it isn't even funny. someone tell me if they think i'm crazy for needing some time to see how i really feel about him and our relationship.

[andrea lara zorrilla]

i just broke up with my boyfriend. he has always been really controling and possessive. i feel like i've done the right thing for me but he says he's changed this time and i shouldn't need time to think anything over i don't feel that's fair. i have gave him time so many times in the last five years to be my boyfriend but he like my how a friend and i love them the last five years and we are a good friends butthe other day i send two balloon one sai i love you and the other sai do you whant be my boy friend and he to feel ashamed and from this day he don t speak me and i crying old the days for he and i in a depressing situation. HELP think things over even though he has cheated on me and hurt me so many times it isn't even funny. someone tell me if they think i'm crazy for needing some time to see how i really feel about him and our relationship.

[mari]

i just broke up with my boyfriend. he has always been really controling and possessive. i feel like i've done the right thing for me but he says he's changed this time and i shouldn't need time to think anything over i don't feel that's fair. i have gave him time so many times in the last five years to think things over even though he has cheated on me and hurt me so many times it isn't even funny. someone tell me if they think i'm crazy for needing some time to see how i really feel about him and our relationship.

JULIE,

 

DON'T DO IT!!! I've been there before! They will never change no matter how many times they tell you they will! It only gets worse. It sounds like he wants control over you. You don't want to be with someone like that, especially if you were to marry him! Don't feel like you're never going to find someone. You will! There's plenty of people out there! But please, don't let him brainwash you! You'll regret it! And if you don't go back with him, you'll look back and be thankful you didn't. Take care!