2sure Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 You have received some helpful perspectives from various posters. You seem to take them as criticism and then respond to defend yourself and your position. At great length with much detail. Have you ever heard the phrase: We can agree to disagree. It means that after each person has said what they think, even though the other doesnt like it...they agree that this is an issue, doesnt have to be solved, and decide to move on with the relationship. To be honest, it seems to me that you not only want people to hear you out and completely understand how they have offended you but also to agree, apologize and atone. To the Nth degree. What if they just dont agree with your perception ?? Do you stop explaining, stop asking? So, your friend ignores you until she thinks you are done with it. When that passes, she is ready to have you back. Link to post Share on other sites
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