Goatsbreath Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 Well you guys- I called. Damn it! We didn't talk long and she was rather rude telling me that she was just walking out the door and going to a friends to watch a movie. Who knows how true this is. Shes probably going to see this guy. When I asked her to call me when she got home she said- maybe. The nature of our realationship is just so different, well I guess its not there for starters. I just suck@! Damn it all to hell. I need some strength here......anyone have any strength Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 I think I'm coming down with something so I'm kinda tired and partly feeble, but at least I'm not heartsore. So you can have whatever I've got left. Link to post Share on other sites
BlockHead Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 The game is over. She got her payoff, and she no longer has a use for you. Don't waste any more time with her. Link to post Share on other sites
Fancy Posted October 27, 2003 Share Posted October 27, 2003 Don't beat yourself up. We've all made phone calls we later regretted. Do you remember what I told you in the other thread about "finding yourself?" You have got to let her go and do her thing. Meanwhile, you do your thing! Head to the gym, call up a friend and have dinner, visit with some family......anything you can to stay busy and keep you from making phone calls. I can totally understand that overwhelming urge to make contact (been there, done that!) but think about how that phone call made you feel. It certainly didn't help and now not only are you feeling sad and rejected, but you're feeling like you totally caved. Starting today, you have to resolve to pick yourself up and be good to you. Give yourself time to grieve this loss, but treat yourself well in the process. Get out there and be around people. Being alone right now is the last thing you need. Every time you get the urge to call her, get online and post something here or call a friend instead. In time, this will pass. I promise! You won't feel this way forever. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Goatsbreath Posted October 28, 2003 Author Share Posted October 28, 2003 Yeah, you guys are telling the truth. Thanks for your words Fancy. I am going to take your advice and try to focus on doing things for me. Hopefully it will be enought to get me through this time. I really don't want to break down and call again. She still has never called me back but oh well. If she does call- Im not going to answer it. Link to post Share on other sites
Fancy Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Good for you! That's the spirit! Believe me, I know exactly where you're coming from. I've been right where you are before and you feel like you'll never be happy or strong again, but you will! I can almost guarantee that if you call her or answer her calls, you're going to feel much worse than you do right now. Try your best to ride out this storm. It's a terrible time, but you're going to have to endure it. Go out and do something fun with some friends, or maybe you can even just go see your parents or another family member and cry on their shoulder. You have to let this all out, but letting it out to your ex is the worst thing you can do, in my opinion. Keep us posted on how you're doing, okay? Link to post Share on other sites
innocent Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 I'm sorry this is totally off-topic what is a "tool"? I swear that I have heard that before but it must not be common slang here in good old Kentucky.... Link to post Share on other sites
cindy0039 Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Something or someone that's used or manipulated, I believe. Link to post Share on other sites
cindy0039 Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 A lot of guys use the word "tool" to refer to their penis. Maybe he was saying he's a d***. ? Also, I just found this in a slang dictionary: Tool: One who is useless AND idiotic in all aspects at any given time. Example: That Tool isn't worth my time. Link to post Share on other sites
innocent Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 haha oh... Link to post Share on other sites
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