KikiW Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 Just pat me on the head and tell me I am wallowing in self pity! My soon-to-be-ex and I need to tell our daughter about our very significant others. She has met both of them, and we have introduced them as good friends, and we have been very careful about how we act in front of her. It's now time to let the cats out of the bag, and we decided to start asking about each others' SOs in front of her, i.e. "Oh how is Jane doing? I heard she wasn't feeling well...", "Oh hey, is Bob coming for a visit soon?" so we can try and get some conversation going. I gave my STBE an opening today and it went over his head. I couldn't find another opportunity to give him an opening and he never offered me one back. Argh. One of my STBE's character flaws is his intense fear of dealing with things, and he's DOING IT AGAIN! Gah I wanna smack the back of his head sometimes! Plus, he's been recently very lax about sticking to the rules and the schedule regarding our daughter. She is Daddy's Little Girl, and has him wrapped around her finger, and I try to get him to see that it's not helpful when I am trying to stick to something and he lets her get away with stuff. Argh. (BTW, these are small issues, really, I am just getting the little stuff off my chest. Me and my STBE are on VERY good terms, I could actually be telling HIM all this, but he is on the phone with his SO right now lol, so YOU guys get to hear it.) On the bright side, I saw a photo of my SO's STBE. She looks like a bag of frogs. Quite unfortunate. Link to post Share on other sites
Rollercoasterr Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 You just have to love it when the ex looks like a bag of frogs. I know I do. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KikiW Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 Yep. I am a bad, bad woman. >; ) Link to post Share on other sites
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