vballtay Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 my SO of about 8 months now has this 'friend' who he's known for a while. i dont know the whole story but he told me he used to have a thing for her until she told him they would be better off as friends. (this was before we got together). he doesnt know that i know, but i found out that not too long ago they exchanged 'nude' pictures, and since they've been talking a lot again recently, i'm scared that something will happen between them. he assures me that they are just friends and that he loves me, but their consistent late night conversations have me worried. should i be nervous? Link to post Share on other sites
lora22 Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 he doesnt know that i know, but i found out that not too long ago they exchanged 'nude' pictures, and since they've been talking a lot again recently, i'm scared that something will happen between them. he assures me that they are just friends and that he loves me, but their consistent late night conversations have me worried. should i be nervous? How did you find out? What does 'nude' mean? Either they were or they weren't right....? If they exchanged nude photos, I'd say something already did happen...and um...were you and he together when this happened? Sounds wicked shady to me. Link to post Share on other sites
Author vballtay Posted June 1, 2009 Author Share Posted June 1, 2009 oh she was naked all the way, i found out one night while he went to the bathroom in the restaurant we were at. he had left his phone and it vibrated on the table about 8 times, so thinking it must've been something really important, i looked. one was a picture mail of her and there were other texts that said she 'loved how big his d*** looked', so i assumed he sent her something as well Link to post Share on other sites
lora22 Posted June 1, 2009 Share Posted June 1, 2009 get rid of him. Also curious how you read his messages, but he didn't catch on that you had? Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 The last thing I want is to be with someone who sends out nude photos of himself to another lady friend! Link to post Share on other sites
Aries77 Posted June 2, 2009 Share Posted June 2, 2009 NUDE PICS???!!!?!? Man, if my man EVER did that, he knows he would be in deep sh*t. Really deep. He would never even THINK of doing that, because he knows how much that would bother me! Girlie, sounds like you've got a cheating man on your hands. Even if he didn't, I'm sure it's going to be coming sometime soon...sorry to say that, but if they're already exchanging nude pics, what's coming next??? Y'know?? If you really love him and want to be together, bring it up. I would. You know what, I would no matter what! It would drive me mad! I just hope you make the right decision for YOU... Good luck. Link to post Share on other sites
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