Does she like me?

[lifereversal]

I'm very attractive, and I'm in no way a doormat(anymore anyways).

 

I'm a guy that likes having a best friend as a girl on the side, the tom boy type of girl that is like one of the guys and not really feminine.

 

Tonight we played soccer, with a bunch of guys. Fun time, while she invited all her other doormat best friends(guys), the whole time she's making fun of them, etc.. and I'm doing the same. I'm not one to take remarks from her etheir. Basically the whole time it was remarks with come backs(between me and her). Quick-witted conversation.

 

While I'm driving, she mentions another guy, something about if she pulls away, would he still be interested, would he chase her. I told her, everyone is different, you have to be honest because a relationship is hard work. No guessing in a relationship.

 

Shes my neighbor. 10 Minutes after I go in. She comes knocking at the door.

 

"I'm just here to bug you."

 

That sounds flirtatious to me. ??

 

I let her down easy with "is that all?"

 

Then when she's about to leave she throws the "your my best friend" line.

 

I come back with "You throw the best friend line around way too much", then she leaves.

 

The take:

 

I've caught her looking at my crotch, my legs, and my arms.

 

She mentions another guy in the car then comes around looking for a booty call?

 

She's a jerk hopper. Real turn off for me.

 

How can I turn her off without changing myself?

[LoveLace]

What are you saying, that this is a habit for her among the boys? You not cool with being her best friend?..I'm not sure I understand...you think that the best friend thing is just a cover up and she's trying to get into your pants?

 

I told a man that's he's the best guy friend I've ever had, and he threw his arms around me. But I guess that's because he knows it's not a "line".

 

If you want her to back off, try saying you have a girlfriend, or better yet, flat out tell her you don't like her.

[lifereversal]

What are you saying, that this is a habit for her among the boys? You not cool with being her best friend?..I'm not sure I understand...you think that the best friend thing is just a cover up and she's trying to get into your pants?

 

I told a man that's he's the best guy friend I've ever had, and he threw his arms around me. But I guess that's because he knows it's not a "line".

 

If you want her to back off, try saying you have a girlfriend, or better yet, flat out tell her you don't like her.

 

I've told her many many times. I'm not interested in her. Trust me. It's like she want's something she can't have(me).

 

I love her as a female friend because she understands me like no one else. It's a great thing. I've helped her where she is going next year; University. Another great thing. I motivated her and I've learned a lot from her. Plus plus.

 

Her father isn't around much. I feel like a father figure, does that make more sence?

[LoveLace]

Well if you call her your one of your best friends, why isn't it ok if she does the same? And "I'm just here to bug you", is not a flirt. It means what it sounds like. She likes your company. Also for someone who claims to adore her so much, it doesn't sound like you were all that nice to her when she came over. If you don't want to lead her on, then don't be a "father figure" to her anymore. Don't be her friend anymore. She might be ok with the fact that you don't like her that way, but your reading into what she does as though she worships you. So it's ok for you to call her a good friend, when she does the same you basically tell her to shut up and go away? That doesn't make any sense. So if you don't want to be "friends" either, I guess it's time you tell her that also.