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slutacious

My boyfriend went out with his cousin yesterday, and came home late today, after swearing up and down he would be home last night before i went to bed. So, tonight before he left for work, he starts accusing me of cheating, and now while he is working, i am getting texted accusations about how i talk to people while he is at work, and how i constantly have men (or women, depending on his mood) over when he is away. What is up with this? Is it just another case of guilty conscience? He does have a past history of messing around.

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RunawayTrain

Well one of two things is going on here in my opinion. Either a.) he feels that you are being unfaithful for some reason. b.) he himself is being unfaithful and he is "projecting" his unfaithful actions by accusing you. His own guilt is spewing from inside of him by him trying to make you out to be the unfaithful one. Either way this doesn't sound like a healthy relationship.

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slutacious is the name one of my friend groups decided on for the group as a whole. Its not really fitting for me, but it gives me more privacy than my usual aliases. But thanks everyone for the advice. I have been suspecting him for a while now, and i think i know who he is messing with now too, because i found a weird number on a slip of paper yesterday and called it, and a girl answered. Thanks for confirming my doubts.

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slutacious is the name one of my friend groups decided on for the group as a whole. Its not really fitting for me, but it gives me more privacy than my usual aliases. But thanks everyone for the advice. I have been suspecting him for a while now, and i think i know who he is messing with now too, because i found a weird number on a slip of paper yesterday and called it, and a girl answered. Thanks for confirming my doubts.

 

number on a slip doesn't mean anything. He would put numbers in his phone. However, he doesn't sound like the brightest kid, so I still think it's best you find a real man.

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slutacious

where i come from, that isnt likely to happen for awhile. But i plan to move him out if he doesnt pay his half of our bills this week. We Arent on a lease, but i have a verbal contract with a friend of my father.

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