Wolverine117 Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Ok, today around 12 : 00 I ran into a fruitcake at school. he keeps on staring at me. I am not into that stuff. I am not a bigot but these guys scare me. So i plan to talk to him tomorrow or at the earliest time i see him. i plan to tell him : Hi, got a name ? anyway, i dont have a problem with you but i notice you looking at me. I am not into that....funny business. Glad we understand each other. I am not judging but i ain't like that. see ya. Link to post Share on other sites
cindy0039 Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 How do you know what he's thinking? You seem a little paranoid about people looking at you. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 Not into what stuff? People looking at you? Maybe he likes you. Maybe he finds you attractive. Maybe you had spinach in your teeth. "these guys scare [you]" What guys? Is he a gang member? Can you classify "these guys"? You said 'bigot' which makes me think he is of a different race or religion from you. It's okay to not be comfortable dating outside your race or religion and you don't even need a reason. But does he scare you only because he is of a different race/religion? Why? Have you had a traumatic experience with someone outside of your own race/religion? Being afraid or not trusting a group of people because of a traumatic experience with someone from that group is normal. There are a lot of women who don't trust men in general because they've been hurt, and others who don't trust people of a certain race/religion, etc. because they've been hurt by someone of that race/religion, etc. That can be overcome and it doesn't necessarily make you a bigot. Can you elaborate on your post? Maybe some folks here can offer advice or suggestions or relate a similar experience that may help give you some insight or new ideas on handling a situation that you are uncomfortable with. Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 28, 2003 Share Posted October 28, 2003 I am not a bigot but these guys scare me. Ah. Of course. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 i THINK he's referring to some guy he believes is gay b/c he looks at him a lot. personally, i think you shouldn't say anything to the guy. just don't look at him back. -yes Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wolverine117 Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 He is most decidedly gay. He makes Jack McFarland (will & grace) look straight as a pole. he hangs out with all girls. he checks out guys. he makes me nervous. this aint the first time a fag has been interested in me. the last time i ignored a fag ( a married black man with a wife and kids but still G.A.Y), he tried to touch me and i ran. i have to confront this one or things wont go well. these guys always complain about rights but just wont leave a straight man alone. I will confront him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wolverine117 Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 I'll have my straight mates ready to intervene if he tries anything. Link to post Share on other sites
yes Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 i find this pretty amusing. are you going to have "talks" with every gay guy you think looks at you?? what about a girl who you don't like back - is she not allowed to look at you either? and what do you think he's going "to try"?? rape you at the library? come on now... if a girl approached me and told me she's not lesbian so i should stop looking at her, i think i'd just tell her she's got her head backwards if she thinks I would even think of looking at somebody like her. i don't like "talks". -yes Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 if you ever catch him looking at you next time, just stare back at him with an angry look on your face....you know that looks like this heh I think he should know to back off without you having to actually confront him Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Wolverine - would you listen to people when they suggest you get counselling? You are one confused dude and you need a hand. Link to post Share on other sites
jenny Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 seriously, please listen to post above. baby, you. need. help. please get it. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Well DUH on me! homosexual never even crossed my mind! When I saw "bigot" I was thinking race or religion. Why are you so afraid of him? Because you had a bad experience with a homosexual man before? Well, I can understand that placing some doubts and fears - but you need to get some help with that. You can't let what happened with one person shadow your entire view and feelings about all people - that is not healthy. If this guy has never approached you - ignore him. The other man was apparently older and married and sounds like a pedophile, while this guy is in your age/peer group. Totally different. Not all men (straight or gay) are rapists. Show some self-confidence and be flattered that another human finds you attractive. If he makes you nervous you can tell him "thanks man, but I'm straight" and leave it at that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wolverine117 Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 Alright. I am at the library now. The dude aint here yet. If he tries anything, i'll tell him i ain't into that stuff. I also know some karate. thanks, ppl. Link to post Share on other sites
moimeme Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Hokey - read this guy's posts. He is forever saying he's bisexual or that he doesn't mind all sorts of sexual practices, etc etc etc. There's bigtime issues here, IMHO. I looked at porn, a lot. (lesbian, bisexual, black, strap ons, BDSM, fetish, BBW, Incest, trans). It was all a novelty to me and i got into it quite a bit. So much it got me doubting myself. What kind of freak was I ? My parents knew I was going through something. Some people thought i was crazy. Others thought i was gayhttp://www.loveshack.org/forums/t25166/ He knows people. He loves porn. ALL PORN. He hates religious fundamentalists. He loves women. He loves diversity. He is smart. A gifted cook, skilled fighter and has a lot of creativity. He is true to himself. He is a pervert. He is a liar. He is insecure around women. He fears going to prison. He loves MTV. He doesnt clean his room. He gets crushes on girls too often. He proudly tells of his porn watching habits (Lesbian, bi, trans, black, asian, indian, strap ons, bbw, incest, animals, bdsm, fetish). This is funny that im shy with women because my past includes streetfighting, cooking, crossdressing, burning a guy who hassled me and seducing several young ladies in my bedroom and have seen sex in many ways (lesbian, interacial, black, asian, bdsm, fetish, animalss, anal, bisexual, shemales, strap ons, fat sex). I find it all very exciting. Now, i would never @!#$ a dude or anything of the sort but it really doesn't bother me or shock me anymore. My attitude toward sex is different from other guys. I like chicks, but dont mind watching something else once in a great while. I am not scared of gay guys nor would i ever **** a guy "To each his/her own, " is the motto i live by. Human sexuality fascinates me. I am well read, educated and open-minded yet no woman has ever loved me though i have loved many girls. I have yet to embrace anyone. My life is a lonely one and i am beginning to despair. I am fascinated by sex (Lesbian, anal, bisexual, bondage, bdsm, bbw, strap ons, fetish, fat girls, asian, black, indian, incest, beastiality) and find them all to be highly erotic. I am heterosexual yet for some weird reason i find it hard to hate gays. I dont hate people and give them the benefit of the doubt. Is that so wrong ?http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t26366/15-1 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t26366/15-2 'nuff said. I could go on; I'm only about halfway through. Link to post Share on other sites
NEONINK Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Wolverine117 - You are so busted!!!!!!!!! Get a clue! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wolverine117 Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 Ah-hem. The Wolverine is Straight. Nasty, perverted, crazy and psychotic, maybe. But he is straight. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wolverine117 Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 Come on, people. Hetero man here. Dont judge the porn. dont hate the porn watcher. hate the industry. Link to post Share on other sites
cindy0039 Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Okay, fine. You're straight. But you don't need to "confront" every gay guy who looks at you. Okay? Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Originally posted by moimeme Hokey - read this guy's posts. He is forever saying he's bisexual or that he doesn't mind all sorts of sexual practices, etc etc etc. There's bigtime issues here, IMHO. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t25166/ http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t26366/15-1 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t26366/15-2 'nuff said. I could go on; I'm only about halfway through. I rememberd some of his past posts, but I was trying to address the single post as a stand-alone. Actually - I kinda thought he should just change his handle to "Troll" and be done with it! Thanks for posting the info - I hadn't remembered all of it and it's nice to see it here for everyone to see. With his problems I don't think he needs to worry too much about school because without some serious help soon he'll be in prison soon enough. Got that Wolverine? Link to post Share on other sites
Leikela Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 The Wolverine is Straight. Nasty, perverted, crazy and psychotic, maybe. But he is straight. Who are you trying to convince? Us or YOU? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Wolverine117 Posted October 29, 2003 Author Share Posted October 29, 2003 I aint convincing nobody. I like no one. I am forever loathed and hated. The women i loved rejected me. The m,en I befriended were perverse. I am all alone in the night. There is nothing inside anymore. All I am is waning. All except the pain. Friendship is all i can have so its what i'll take. You can question my sanity. I like to specify things to facilitate the reader's image of me. Not even a brilliant humn being can question what does not exist. Link to post Share on other sites
HokeyReligions Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 Originally posted by Wolverine117 I aint convincing nobody. I like no one. I am forever loathed and hated. The women i loved rejected me. The m,en I befriended were perverse. I am all alone in the night. There is nothing inside anymore. All I am is waning. All except the pain. Friendship is all i can have so its what i'll take. You can question my sanity. I like to specify things to facilitate the reader's image of me. Not even a brilliant humn being can question what does not exist. [insert musical notes here] I am Rock I am an Island (Simon & Garfunkle) Look up the lyrics. Wolverine - do you think you are the only person to feel what you feel? Time to grow up man. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 Ahem as i stated in a previous post, you need some serious help dude. do you have low self-esteem? Are you a very intraverted, anti-social type of person?? If so go out and do new things!! be more open and socialize more....! please try not to think too much about yourself and your problems...it only confuses yourself more and stresses the mind....just relax dude..... please consider our advice and seek help Link to post Share on other sites
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