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Not the love ace

Okay,

 

I have a neighbor who lives downstairs from me. Me and her are good friends but she has a roommate whom I find so attractive. The times I went to her house and saw her roommate we eyed a each other a few brief times from across the room. And when we spoke our eyes locked on to each others for a significant amount of time. There's also been times where she seen me obviously flirt with her non verbally by eying her up-and-down. I think she's very stunning.

 

However, even though I've seen her eye me, I don't want to gas myself up and think she might find me attractive and try to hard to flirt with her if she doesn't find me attractive. Not only that she seems like an all smiles person and I can

 

Today my heart was pounding because I lent my friend some CD's and she's been trying to see me for a while but I haven't been home. So I went down and she wasn't home but her roommate was home and opened the door to tell me she wasn't home. When she opened the door she had on really short compression type shorts and a tight tank top shirt which showed her stomach and of course I can see the rest of her sexy curvy body.

 

I couldn't help but let my eyes obviously look her up and down (while she saw me looking at her like that) and after I asked for my friend we made small talk and I told her that she looks very fit and she's very pretty. I had to let it out and tell her how nice she looked. The whole time she actually conversed with me and didn't try to rush me off or anything and she seemed fine with me telling her. She also told me her friend won't be home to late at night.

 

At that point I was thinking of a way to maybe talk to her a little more. I am making dinner and I was thinking of giving her a plate of food or something. I want to talk to her again but first I don't want to come off as weird or anything. I also don't want to get the wrong idea because maybe she just does things differently or her signs are different. However I think (BIG THINK) there might be some attraction.

 

What should I do so that way I can know for sure she might be interested?

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Not the love ace

Okay,

 

Well I went back down stairs and actually initiated a conversation with her. I made up a lame excuse and told her if she can give my friend another DVD. So I handed it to her and we spoke from there. We actually talked about a lot of different things and it lasted about 45 minutes. She didn't invite me in but I did ask if she can teach me some Portuguese (which she speaks and I do want to learn for personal reasons) and in turn I'll help her with her English. So hopefully one day in the future this will get us to see each other more.

 

I'm still not jumping the gun but I am hoping more comes out of this.

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Why don't you quit overthinking things and go ask her to dinner or something lol. If you go ask her out on a date, you'll know for sure or not, I believe sitting around and wondering if the worst thing imaginable

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