Chrome Barracuda Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 Thanks Nomad,Gunny and chrome for all the advice. I should have just broken off from day one.It seems trying to do the right thing was a waiste of time all along.I would never win. Forgot to mention..she is apparently gonna try again with the baby thing???WTF.....baring in mind she nearly died last time if i am right isnt it likely to have a similar result the next time around???does she not even care what she puts her kids through??Who will look after them if the worst happens. Anyway.I will completely disapear from their lives now.its for the best. She's a F-ing idiot for real! but you know what it aint your problem...anymore. Your gonna be better off away from all this toxicity. and look at it this way, the OM aint even take care of her while she was sick, what makes her think he's gonna take care of her again. She's wasting her money to be IVF again, at her own health risk and plus this man is not stepping up to the plate. Havent you noticed a pattern with this woman?!!? she uses people, she supplants kids as accessories, has affairs, this woman is looking for internal gratification in things and objects and emotions, but she'll never be happy or content. Leave man, be happy you dont have to pay her any alimony or child support. have you filed for divorce, get your paper right mayn. Link to post Share on other sites
Gunny376 Posted August 10, 2009 Share Posted August 10, 2009 The fact of the matter is? Most people aren't LTR people! They're just not cut out for a long term commitment! They're good for 'kicks and giggles" ~ but NOT for the long haul! When the going gets tough? They get going! As a career Marine? It seriously took a lot of effort to get this wrapped around my head, once I got back out here in civilian la~la land? I'm still in shock and awe ~ at peoples attitude toward life in general? Link to post Share on other sites
Author confused71 Posted September 16, 2009 Author Share Posted September 16, 2009 Hi all, So have had some ups and downs over last couple of months. She has been leaving the kids home alone while she works nights.Obviously this is a bit crazy because of 15 year olds behaviour problems. So I got calls one night asking me to go round because eldest had a party and the police were called.....I flatly refused. So next morning she texted me to say kids had stolen stuff from the house and she had been fined by police.(I recently found out OM's expensive watch was stolen ) Of course I was to blame for all this and have been receiving various horrible texts from her all month about I am to blame for everything wrong in her life. So today we went to sign the papers and I calmly tried asking if she was ok and I was worried she might be having emotional problems due to baby loss and stuff......She went absolutely berserk shouting and screaming in the car and nearly crashed twice. Honestly this did me a favor as It was a clear reminder she has completely lost it. So we signed papers and then she accused me of using kids to spy on her and went home and got them to block me from msn and facebook:mad:.....was bound to happen in the end though i suppose. Oh yeah....she is definatley gonna try again with the IVF thing with OM....absolutly crazy. So hopefully in a months time will be divorced....Still have that feeling in my stomach though and am sad for whats happened. Link to post Share on other sites
mark982 Posted September 16, 2009 Share Posted September 16, 2009 man your in a much better place w/o her. good job on manning up though,now why aren't you blocking her from getting ahold of you? Link to post Share on other sites
Chrome Barracuda Posted September 16, 2009 Share Posted September 16, 2009 I think you should block and erase all their numbers. Get lost... It'd be funny if she still call you after and got a wrong number tone. "This number you have reached is no longer in service" LMAO. Dude you'll be happy in no time. let the OM take care of business. that's what he's good at and let the ex's ovaries fall out with IVF, then maybe she'll understand. Link to post Share on other sites
Author confused71 Posted September 16, 2009 Author Share Posted September 16, 2009 I think you should block and erase all their numbers. Get lost... It'd be funny if she still call you after and got a wrong number tone. "This number you have reached is no longer in service" LMAO. Dude you'll be happy in no time. let the OM take care of business. that's what he's good at and let the ex's ovaries fall out with IVF, then maybe she'll understand. Thanks mate,Yeah I need to find out how to block numbers... Its funny though she has texted me about 8 times already with just nasty stuff lol .....absolutley crazy. Link to post Share on other sites
Gunny376 Posted September 16, 2009 Share Posted September 16, 2009 Forget them! Get on with your Life! Live your Life! Answer the question? What in the Hell made you believe? That this one person? Was the best you could do? That this one person was all you could do without! People are such idiots for love and sex! Women have always known this ~ so many men have not! It still amazes me how many men are so completely willing to throw down and ruin their lives and careers over a piece of @zz? I'm sure it amases women? Link to post Share on other sites
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