trustydusty Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 So my ex split with me about a month and a half ago, and the last contact we had was about 2.5 weeks ago when she texted me to tell ask me how my memorial day was going and told me she had passed all of her finals. We exchanged a couple of messages that day about going out on her families jetski's this summer, but no contact after that. I have been doing pretty well since then (of course i still think about her), but today i had the sudden urge to contact her just to kind of drop in and say hi (via text). Just wondering if it would be a bad idea. As long as i keep it light i know its not gonna bother me but still wondering what everyone thinks. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 I wouldn't..you'll be starring at your phone waiting on a reply all day and set yourself back to square one. Link to post Share on other sites
Nedved Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 Totally agree. I would'nt text her. I'm in the same boat as my ex gf broke up with me about a month ago and have'nt heard from her in over 2weeks. If they want to contact us they will but d'ont contact her 1st. As praying4daylight quite rightly said you'l be waiting around for a reply all day and be very angry if she dose'nt. That would be my worst nightmare at the moment and i'm not gonna do that to myself or give her the satisfaction of doing that to me after all my hard work to get to this point. You'l prob end up sending her another text or calling her and you d'ont need that. Link to post Share on other sites
Author trustydusty Posted June 10, 2009 Author Share Posted June 10, 2009 Yeah i guess that part of me still wants to know that she hasn't forgotten about me, but then another part of me wants to let go and date other girls etc. But i think you guys are right if she wants to contact me she will and if not than it's her loss. Link to post Share on other sites
wmast Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 Yeah i guess that part of me still wants to know that she hasn't forgotten about me, but then another part of me wants to let go and date other girls etc. But i think you guys are right if she wants to contact me she will and if not than it's her loss. Trust that she won't forget about you! This is a trap I think us "dumpees" fall into all too often. I found myself wondering the same thing.. Now ask yourself this: Do you remember your fourth grade teacher? I've graduated college and I still remember mine! The contact I had with that teacher was minimal and I was only in her class for one year, but I remember her vividly. Now in the case of an ex, trust that you are on her mind somehow, someway. Something she may hear, see, feel will definitely remind her of you. With all that said, this shouldn't even be a concern. You need to completely heal up and get back out there when you're ready! If she wants you back, her words and actions will show you, until then keep healing with NC. Good luck bro! Link to post Share on other sites
CaliGuy Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 If you have to ask this question, the answer is ALWAYS no!. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted June 10, 2009 Share Posted June 10, 2009 My ex texted me a few hours ago. Will she get a reply?NO.. She can set and wonder why havent I replied yet. I'm not trying to play a game with her,like she is me. I just do not want to converse with her in any fashion. She gets and deserves none of me! Focus on fixing/healing yourself and try not to wonder what shes doing. Chin up! Link to post Share on other sites
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