on the edge of breaking up?

[poopoo]

Well, here's my story. I've been in a relationship with a girl for 3

and a half years now. She is 20 years old and I am 19. We have been

dating since high school, and we graduated 2 years ago. Two years

before we started going out she was crazy about me.

 

She now has feelings for someone else, but is still with me and loves

me. She tells me that she had liked this same guy in high school when

she liked me, but she liked me "way more". She doesnt even know him,

never hung out with him or really talked to him to a great extent. She

told me that she gets the butterflies her stomach feeling whenever she

talks to him.

 

Any thoughs to where we are headed or advice would be excellent. thanks.

 

-tom

[UCFKevin]

She TOLD you that?

 

Holy CRAP, that's incredibly coldhearted.

 

I'd say it's over. Your relationship is going to be one-sided, she has feelings for another dude for crying out loud, that's all you need to know. End it now before it gets worse.

[DonTomaso]

End it now. You are both still very young. If she doesn't break your heart with this guy she will with someone else if that's the way she speaks and acts.

[northerngirl]

Hi,

I know that it is really hard for you to be going through this...but it is probably really hard for her too. You two are young and it is hard not to think about what you might miss out on or be misisng out on if you stay in the same relationship from highschool. If she is having these feelings now, she will most likely continue thinking about other guys. Maybe she doesn't know what she wants. I'm not that much older then you guys and I know that being around 20 is a confusing time and you change alot from what you were like in highschool.

My advice to you is think about YOU. Think about what you want. Do you want to be in a relationship with her if she feels this way? What do you want? Its going to hurt to leave the relationship, but sometimes thats just the best thing to do.