KitKat21 Posted October 29, 2003 Share Posted October 29, 2003 I need some advice on what is going on with this guy I have been seeing for the past month. Everyday I talk to him on the phone or see him I feel different,what I mean by that is some days we'll talk on the phone or in person and leave on a good note to where I feel great, other times I'll leave his house,or hang up the phone and ask myself "What was that!!!? I feel like he is playing with my head in a big way. Every time I see him we make out and it seems like everythings fine and then ten minutes later he's teasing me and being a jerk--I just don't know what to think!! Then he will leave messages on my phone saying how much he misses me, then he is quiet and has nothing to say when I see him or call him back!!! Another thing is that we had sex one night and now he doesn't' show any interest in it anymore and I feel like I'm all over him 'cuz I want him, and I end up feeling like I'm trying too hard. What do I make of this situation? Am I just dating someone fu**ed up? Or is this his way of showing me he likes me in some weird way? Link to post Share on other sites
Sunrain Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 All I can suggest is to try to get to know him better. I don't know what your conversations consist of but you do have the ability to control things more than you know. What I mean is ask him questions pertaining to getting to know him for who he really is. Maybe make a list of what you want to know from him. If he is not interested in instigating sex I would back off and just try to see what he is about by going places with him that interest you both and discussing what it was like. You can also tell him how you feel about him and ask him how he feels. Get to know the truth of things so you know where you stand and then you can make decisions on how you want the relationship to go or if you even want the relationship, too. Best of luck with him and I hope you get what you want out of the relationship because that's the way it is supposed to be. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KitKat21 Posted October 30, 2003 Author Share Posted October 30, 2003 Most of our conversations are small talk. I forgot to mention that we work together and that is how we met,we used to talk all the time there, now he doesn't even come by to where I'm working to talk (I work on an assembly line) he just passes by and waves. Another fu**ed up situation is that we both had the flu this past week, and on Monday(Oct 27th) I being sick myself, still made him chicken noodle soup,and brought over some nyquill,tylenol,and a thermometer to his house to take care of him. The next day I was so sick that I could'nt even move and he felt fine(thanks to me) saying he was going to work and that he owed me. Anyway today I called him up and asked him if he wanted me to come over he said "If you want" (that don't even sound like he wants to see me)When I get there he is all over me kissing and hugging on the couch,then ten minutes later he gets up to go to the bathroom and says"You better not get me sick again,or I'm gonna throw all your shi* to the curb" So I said "Fine,if you want me to stay away for a few days then I will" He then says to me"Why do you always gotta jump to conclusions like that?" "Did I say that I didn't want you to come around?" So when I went to say something he just held his hand up and said "Shh". Then a minute later we're back on the couch kissing, I know its messed up but I really like this guy and I want it to work!! Is it possible?---HELP!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
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