PUflight Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 Ok here's the deal. My ex and I dated for 10 months, have been broken up since the middle of August. She broke up with me. And ever since then I've tried to move on dated around and have seen two girls since then, but here's the deal. She was very bitter towards me which I'll outline later. Well on Sunday she IM's me asking me if I still hate her, I said no I never hated her, then she tells me that she doesn't know if she made a mistake or us breaking up was a good idea, then she says she drove past my apartment and started crying while listening to "What Might Have Been" by Little Texas and then she asks me if I wanna hang out sometime this week. Well we did last night. Things went well, I would say. We talked like friends for quite a while and were watching a movie and all of sudden she says don't you think this is weird. I was like no not really. Then she says I feel like I should be sitting next to you and cuddled up with you. And I said well come over here then. She hesitates and says it wouldn't be right. Well then I get up to show her something, she follows me and before I know it were holding and hugging each other, it felt great! She then goes to say wow, I missed that, I haven't been hugged like that in a long time. So then we go and sit down again and we're all cuddled up just talking and before I know it she kisses me out of the blue, we kiss awhile. Then we get to talking about why we even broke up to begin with. Here's the reasons. 1. I was in a massive funk about my career, I wasn't happy at all with it the whole time we were dating and it made me quite a bitter person 2. I didn't show her enough emotion. and 3. My best friend and her do not get along whatsoever. Ok #1 and #2 have been corrected I changed my career path and have become a much happier,more emotional person because of it. But there's my friend, I'm not giving him up for her, no way, I told her that he can have his own opinions about us but I'm doing what I want to do. So then we're just talking and she's like what do you want from this? I told her that I want to get back together, but not as serious as we were before, we were talking about getting married. I told her I still loved her and have missed her everyday we've been apart. She then tells me that she's missed me too, says that she's been having dreams about me and then goes to say watch we'll probably end up getting married in the long run. I said whatever happens, happens. She then says that I broke her heart big time and I told her that I'm going to fix that. She asks me why I love her and why I miss her, and I told her. Then we just held each other and talked for a while before I took her home. In the car she asks what I want from this again. I asked her now or Later? She says later. I told her to be with her in the end. She just smiles and gives me the look that makes me melt. So I drop her off give her a good night kiss. So today I talk to her and I ask her what exactly we established last night. And she said that she wants us both to do our own things and casually hang out and eventually maybe date again, exact words from her. What does that mean??? Does that mean we're back at square one? Am I allowed to see other girls? I wouldn't want to anyways, but just curious! Oh and on a sidenote, Friday would of been our one year anniversary so earlier today I ordered her a dozen roses with a pretty good note to her. So can anybody give me any insight here? Is there a chance we're gonna get back together? Or is she playing games with me? Any help would be greatly appreciated. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
DVNPRT6 Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 You are pretty much in the same boat I am....She said it felt great to be with you again...I have cuddled wih my Ex recently and still to this day am not back with her...if she said casually hang out and date other ppl..it means just that...Shes not ready for you 100% right now and might be in the future Link to post Share on other sites
Author PUflight Posted October 30, 2003 Author Share Posted October 30, 2003 Ok so she called me last night because she wanted to come over and cuddle. She ended up staying the night. Now what's going? Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
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