susie-Q Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 Okay, I am currently in a relationship with this guy...I think. We first started dating last October (after having been friends for about a year) when about a week later he suddenly started avoiding me all together. We had only gone on one date and only kissed once. Then a few months later he started coming around again and hanging out with me and roommates. We got back together, got a little physical but not much AT ALL. Then he started ignoring me again. Well, over the summer we became friends again, hanging out, whatnot. About 4 weeks ago we got back together...again. That night we actually had sex and after that we just saw each other a few times that week, not for long though. We hang out every now and then and we've gotten together a couple more times. When he's around me or talking on the phone he acts very interested and whatnot. The problem is that he never takes the time to call me, I have to call him. He lives about 20 minutes away so sometimes thats a problem but he works 2 minutes away. He's nearby every day yet cant take a couple minutes to stop by before or after work. I know he got out of a really bad relationship about 1 1/2 years ago so thats why I didnt think about him avoiding me at first. I new he was kinda afraid to get into a new relationship. My question is, do you think he's had plenty of time to get over the last relationship? do you think he just wants to be friends with benefits? I would ask him but lately everytime he has come over there have been a lot of people around (i live with 6 other girls). Also, he is a police officer and is about 7 years older than me. I live on a university campus. Do you think maybe he just feels weird about dating someone much younger and the fact taht my roommates throw parties all the time (cops get called)? I kinda get the hint that he really wants me but its kinda embarassing for him since his co-workers hate all my roommates? HELP! I'm falling...err...fallen for this guy soooo bad! Link to post Share on other sites
Purrrfection8 Posted October 30, 2003 Share Posted October 30, 2003 Hi, how r u? I think u've sort of answered ur own question.. Do u think he's ready, available and willing to start something? Seems touch and go (no pun intended!)... Why don't u just ask him outright instead of wondering what is in his head... But judging from his lack of attention to your needs, not sure if he's going to change his ways... Speak to him, let him know ur thoughts on where ur headed.. All the best, Purrrfection8 Link to post Share on other sites
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