moonchildjo Posted June 14, 2009 Share Posted June 14, 2009 him I dont know how to take my friend at moment and was wondering if people could give me some views on way he is behaving. We have a bit of history in as much as we were friends for a while, he started having problems with his then gf - he started coming on to me but i kept my distance and nothing happened. He met a girl soon after which hurt so i confronted him about what he did. We havent been getting on recently well he aint been bothering with me since this girl. Anyway past week hes been talking to me on msn him making the first move not me. To be honest its weird he actually is talking to me and in his usual manner too. But he just goes on how tired he is and how tiring things are. To his family hes saying oh im so happy loving the house/relationship/work yet to me its im so tired, things are tiring im ok blah blah. He also goes offline all of a sudden im just worried he might try it on again! Link to post Share on other sites
BearPower Posted June 14, 2009 Share Posted June 14, 2009 how long have you been friends? Link to post Share on other sites
Author moonchildjo Posted June 14, 2009 Author Share Posted June 14, 2009 we had been friends a year before he started all the crap Link to post Share on other sites
BearPower Posted June 14, 2009 Share Posted June 14, 2009 I would keep it that way. For a start, he is coming on to you whilst he is in a relationship. That should be ringing alarm bells in your head. IF you guys ever got in a relationship, he would probably do the same to you when things get rocky. He sounds like he is playing games, with you and his family. Although to me, sounds like he tells his family things are great to not let them cotton on to the fact that he is trying to get you. He tells you he is unhappy, to what sounds to me like he wants your 'blessing' to leave the relationship...thus taking it as a sign that you are willing to give things a shot and condone his behaviour. The best course of action, is TOTALLY friendzone him, tell him he should be working on his relationship, and that coming on to you is not OK, is unfair to his gf and you dont see him that way. Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable, and has rocked your trust in him a bit and to get his **** together. Im almost certain that is his intention. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted June 14, 2009 Share Posted June 14, 2009 When was the last time you looked him in the eyes? Link to post Share on other sites
berry_oh Posted June 15, 2009 Share Posted June 15, 2009 Curious, how do you feel about him now? Do you still have feelings for him? Would you go out with him given the chance? Link to post Share on other sites
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