monkey00 Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 ok here's what happened.... I happened to be head over heals...in love? ( i liked/loved her intellectually not sexually) or liked my friend for about 4 days during that time...all i could think about was her, couldnt eat nor sleep, my daily routines were no longer a routine, also my lust disappeared wtf? (as in i stopped being horny, yes this normally would happen several times a week) anyway after those 4 days, back to my regular routines, i was able to sleep and eat again...and i thought about her occasionally...yet lust still nowhere to be found!!!?? and NOW i find myself thinking of her even less AND unsure if i even like her more than a friend anymore...damn this is nuts!! I'm unsure if i even like her anymore (probably not) and my LUST has disappeared into thin air?! GUYS GIRLS help me with this one, do you what happened during that period of time?? and why my lust is still gone....do you even think i have feelings for her anymore?? Link to post Share on other sites
Holly Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 It sounds like you had an obsession going for a little while and then you snapped back to reality. I've done that before. Could also be that you were subconsciously uncomfortable with the intense feelings you were having and everything just halted...it kind of depends on how long you've known her and for how long you've been experiencing these new emotions toward her. Perhaps you will again change your mind in a week's time? Link to post Share on other sites
Author monkey00 Posted October 31, 2003 Author Share Posted October 31, 2003 well, i've known her on a personal level since about 2 months so far, since we sit next to each other in class, but only have hung out once so far. perhaps you're right holly, we're gonna hang out one week later to watch a movie...and possibly dinner. Link to post Share on other sites
Vivid_29 Posted November 2, 2003 Share Posted November 2, 2003 Sounds more like an infatuation, which eventually will fade, and fast! Link to post Share on other sites
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