LadyV Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 So, another update to my wonderful LS friends..... I got another FWD from XBF. The last one was sent to just his son and I about being someone who makes a differnence and he was passing the Blue Ribbon on to us. Whatever...I didn't reply. This morning, I get another FWD...sent to other friends...I am asian, born in the US, anyway, it was a joke...there is a picture attached to the email and the only way to see it it is if you squint your eyes. And what it says is..."No Sex causes bad eyes" In the email he put "My lil Asian friend should like this..." Well, I am the only asian friend on the email list....There were a few of the names I recognized. WHAT THE HECK???? I was so pissed, I almost replied..."Yes, you are right....lack of sex does cause the eyes to go bad...I guess YOU dont' have that problem do you because I know you have no problems with the NO SEX!" I didn't, I just trashed it. I don't know why he feels it's okay to send me stuff like this. I want to reply SO BAD and CURSE him out, but I won't...I"m better than that....I am so happy where I'm at right now. I'm happy and confortable in my own skin again....I've started working out, I've lost 13 lbs since the break up, and quit smoking, as well as getting myself in shape. I have no desire to talk to or see him. If I do, I may just punch him in the face.... His number is no longer blocked either. I guess because I feel confident enough to know that I won't call him, and if he calls me??? or Texts me??? There is an ignore button for that, as well as a delete button for the texts. I want him to really get the hint that I'm done with him and have moved on.... I don't believe he is right to send me these emails...I mean, I told him..DON'T CALL, DON'T TEXT, DON'T EMAIL, LOOSE MY NUMBER!!!! The only account he can contact me on is my work email, which he obviously already has. I know he is trying to get my attention. I work for the Department of Defense, and have a Gov't email account. He NEVER would send stuff hear out of fear that I would get in trouble. I know he's just trying to play a game... 45 days today...45 days!!! Wooohooo...What a great feeling....I haven't broken NC once!!! Not once...although he's left the card on my door for my graduation, HE emailed me a FWD last week, and another one yesterday....Hmmm....wonder if he's itching to talk to me or missing me..."What, things with your new girl not working out???" Well, TOUGH ****!!! Back off, and leave me be.... I don't know if I will ever be ready to talk to him again. I mean, I just don't want to feel like I would want him, only to get hurt again. I don't want to fall victim to the whole..."Gosh, I miss you....BLAH BLAH BLAH" I'm not ready to be his friend....maybe one day. He may be ready to be my friend again, but I am not....I'm just keeping my stance on NC untill I feel strong enought to say..."Hey, how are you?" But at this point, with him having a girlfriend, and me still trying to get through and heal, I see no point in trying to be his friend.... Link to post Share on other sites
bluewolf17 Posted June 17, 2009 Share Posted June 17, 2009 Your silence is getting the better of him. He's getting curious. Two emails huh? And that last was was a little inappropriate, especially to send to work! Seems like he is trying to get a reaction out of you. I am so happy you are doing so well! Let him miss you all he wants Link to post Share on other sites
Author LadyV Posted June 17, 2009 Author Share Posted June 17, 2009 Your silence is getting the better of him. He's getting curious. Two emails huh? And that last was was a little inappropriate, especially to send to work! Seems like he is trying to get a reaction out of you. I am so happy you are doing so well! Let him miss you all he wants Yes Blue, it was very innappropriate.... I have to agree, he is probably trying to get a reaction out of me, but, he isn't going to get it. I'm so done with it and glad that I have held onto NC as long as I have. I haven't once buckled...just kept myself in check. I have too. I have 2 kids to think about and I don't want them to see me go through all this for nothing....You know what I mean??? Thank you for your response Blue!!! Please, keep me posted on your situation...I know that everything happens for a reason.... Hang in there and stay strong, and stay true to YOU!!! HUGS!!! Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 Amazing, the tactics they try to just get a rise out of you. He sounds like a real barrel of laughs. Big, vacuous and wooden. Good on ya....! Link to post Share on other sites
Author LadyV Posted June 18, 2009 Author Share Posted June 18, 2009 THANK YOU!!! Yes, he is something else. I am not responding and it feels great to be able to say NO to whatever he throws my way... Link to post Share on other sites
bluewolf17 Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 You are definelty taking the high road on this one. Keep it up! Link to post Share on other sites
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