hannah Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 my boyfriend has a tendancy to allow other girls to depend on him and demand things of him, and it confuses and frustrates me. although i respect that he is a good friend, sometimes i feel like he goes a little too far. often, if he does something nice for me, he'll do the same exact thing for a female friend to make her happy, or to avoid having her lament because she never gets treated as nicely by men. it frustrates me because i feel like there is no differentiation between his feelings for me and for them. except that we are physically close. he talks about his female friends a lot, keeps tabs on them and in my eyes, it seems like he has a crush on one of them. i have brought this up and he strongly denies it; says it's just his personality, but i feel like a lot of time that he devotes to them takes away from time we could be doing things. what to do? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 I think he's trying to be the nice guy. I mean i'm a guy too and if any of my female friends had those kind of problems and seeked me for help, i undoubtedly would see what i can do. You know it's kind of hard for us to just stand there and not help girls out, it's almost as if treating them bad to not be there for them. I really dont know what you should do, you might be feelinga little jealous now. But bear with him, you are so much more special than his girl friends...he will be there 24/7 whne you need him and will always have a special place in his heart for you. You could try discussing this over with him, but i dont think it would help change anything. It's almost asking him to turn his back on his friends... so yea, hope you feel better Link to post Share on other sites
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