Pete93 Posted June 18, 2009 Share Posted June 18, 2009 hi guys im new to this forum and think this is the right place to put this up. Alright, I dont know where else to go, I cant get any help from anyone im close with because everyones being jerk off's. So here's the story, july 8th 2008 I had just started dating my ex, it was such a ****ing awesome time, we saw eachother all the time, and basically did everything together. She was from New York (Bronx) and was staying here with her grandparents. My family is really tight with hers and everything's going fine. I go to italy for a month, She goes back home for a month to get her stuff moved here, but we never broke up knowing we would be back in a month. We both came back, and we thought we would just pick up where we left off. Her mother had not liked me from the start of it all, because when we first met, her mom was still at home in NY. Her mother immediately started to be a bitch to me, ( not letting us talk, deleting me from her myspace, short phone time etc..) it went on for about 6 months with such a bad expericence. Untill one day came in february and we break up... By this point we were in love and etc... So now im trying to get her back, but I couldnt change her mind. March comes, and we decide to get back together.. her mom finds out, sets me up, I called her mom a bitch, her mom calls me and starts freaking out, and tells me to stay away from her.. So I respected this womans commands and I never talked again. Now April comes and she gets a new BF. Her mom gives this guy just as much hell as she gave me.. So I get an instant msg. from her saying "I really miss you etc.... and My new BF tells me he loves me, but I told him that I dont love him back, I love You". I told her that I still had some feelings for her too.. shes going back to Connecticut to see her father, and before she left friday she said that she "has to see me before she leaves". I dont know what to do, she is in another relationship, but wants me back, and I kind of do too, but I dont want to be the other guy. She wrote this to a friend of mine: "Loosing him was like the end for me. I miss everything about him, the good times we shared makes me wanna cry, Moving on isn't exactly what Im aiming for. But I know what I had. And he made me the happiest girl in the [ENTIRE] world. I can't see him, hold him, but Nobody can tell me to stop talking to him. I still love him, and she can't tell me no, because he still loves me too !!!!!!!! </3:" Can anyone please help me, I dont know whether or not I should just forget her, or try my mind and my heart are fighting over what to do now, so any advice would really be appreciated. Link to post Share on other sites
NiceGuy4Ever Posted June 19, 2009 Share Posted June 19, 2009 Okay judging by the excessive interference with her mom you both might be yound but it's just a guess. Well what I can say is that just give her the company she needs but be cautious. We don't want to make this into a "I have two Lovers" situation. She obviously still Loves you and it pisses me off when parents get involved and so interfering. Just see her one last time but DON'T do anything else because keep in mind though she Loves you she has a boyfriend. We don't need more problems to be created from this situation. Hope this helps. Link to post Share on other sites
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