Chrome Barracuda Posted June 27, 2009 Share Posted June 27, 2009 So that's just it Jany just sweep it under the rug and pretend it never happened??? What if you got an STD? huh? I mean what kind of wife, woman are you to ignore what happened and pretend it never happened and yes you are still conspiring with the OM when you refuse to tell the truth! you should not be afraid. You should have realized the damaged before you ever began the affair in the first place!!! How long are you gonna live with it, how long can you look yourself in the mirror and know your chunk of a marriage is a lie? What if your husband begins an affair? what happens then? Seriously what are you so afraid of! Link to post Share on other sites
Author jany Posted June 27, 2009 Author Share Posted June 27, 2009 Yes, I am quite certain the BS doesn't know. My OM is a very very careful guy and unless he confesses, she won't know. Plus, we all know that men can compartmentalize their lives very well, and he probably acts the same throughout our fling. I did read somewhere that most affairs go undetected. Link to post Share on other sites
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