Girlinterrupted Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 I broke up w/ my X about 2 weeks ago, for good, after a very turbulant 3yr relationship full of lies, deception and infedility....all on his part. I forgave and tried to make it work untill I could no more! He had a child w/ some girl he had a fling with, that's where the line was crossed! So I left him, I hate him. I've been doing a great job of keeping busy, not sweatin' things, basically moving on. I've been going out, talking w/ my girls about my feelings, reading and everything that I'm supposed to do in order to succesfuly move one and stay healthy and positive. Problem is that I keep having dreams about him! Last night I dreampt that some girl called me talking about she was his girl friend and I was like "well I'm not with him anymore but he's been trying to get w/ me still and get used to it cause he is a cheat and he is no good" basically I was warning the girl that what she has is no good and I don't care nor do I want him. I also told her that "he will always come back to me even though I don't want him" and then I told her "go ahead ask him, ask him if he still Loves me" and she got all pissed off and I could hear her yelling at him asking him why he was acting scared about the phone call and question. Finally he got on the phone and he was like "I'm not going to say I love you" he said it in a sort of way that said he still does love me but was not going to say the words. I asked him "when is he going to grow up and stop trying to be a player and told him to get me out his life and never call me again!" Anyway, why am I dreaming about all this bulls***? I don't even think of him or if he's moved on or anthing pertaining to him at all! When thoughts of him do come into my mind I just change them, I don't dwell, I replace them with positive thoughts! I'm very intent on NOT allowing him or thoughts of him to waste anymore of my precious time......so why the dreams? Link to post Share on other sites
UCFKevin Posted October 31, 2003 Share Posted October 31, 2003 Dreams are often a compilation of random firing of synapses as a result of your day winding down. Means nothing. I wouldn't worry about it. Link to post Share on other sites
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