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After being together 3.5 years and broken up for two, my ex told me yesterday he pretty much wants nothing to do with me and doesn't want to be my friend either. During these two months we were broken up we spoke here and there and hung out a few times which when we did I could tell he really cared about me. But then he dropped this on me yesterday.

 

Now that I am being forced to do NC as he doesnt want to be my friend either I am debating whether I should block his number from calling me. I know it would help me heal as I would not jump and get excited when I have a call or text and go to bed crying when he hasnt tried to call me all day. I am just afraid, what if he does try to reach out to me at some point and he can't? Any advice on whether you would block a number or not would he helpful. Thanks

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Of course!

That's what No Contact means!

It means no contact from either party.

That's what helps you heal and move on.

keeping things rolling is like constantly picking at a scab.

It's never going to heal.

Do everything necessary to completely erase him from your life.

 

Heck, you broke up a long time ago, but you still feel devastated now - because you never really 'broke up' with him, did you?

kept it all going to a lesser degree, by hanging out as friends.

That's a whole pile of crock, isn't it?

This is why breaking up should be exactly that. This being friends is a load of hoo-hah.

It's generally done for the benefit of the person who broke it off.

makes them feel better about the break, and makes them think you're ok with it, so it's not so bad.....

 

make like he no longer exists.

 

To you, he doesn't.

he's met someone, you see.

Go total No Contact.

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Great advice from Tara.

 

I am just afraid, what if he does try to reach out to me at some point and he can't?

Please don't continue to put your life on hold for this guy, hoping that he'll come around! It sounds like he's moved on, and you should too. YES, block his number! I've done it twice with two different exes for two different reasons. Once was after I got dumped and had an even harder time moving on from the break up because we were still "friends." The first three or four weeks after I blocked his number (and everything else - screen name, emails, etc.) were AWFUL, but it's really what I needed to be able to move on.

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I blocked my ex's number, and the block also prevents me from calling her. I have also blocked her myspace page through my internet browser.

 

The only way to really heal is through no-contact. If I break NC, I know that I will have to re-start the recovery process all over again.

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