caz83 Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 Hey, I was just wondering is there anybody on here who either a) was the dumper and left your partner for some one else but then decided you had made a mistake and went back or b) was the dumpee and had your partner leave you for someone else and they ended up coming back. How long did it take for you/them to realise it was a mistake? and what caused you/them to realise that? Thanks x Link to post Share on other sites
motive2002 Posted June 20, 2009 Share Posted June 20, 2009 I've dumped before and I don't think I've ever gone back. I've visited, maybe played in the pool when i shouldn't have, but I never fully went back. Whatever the issue was that brought the relationship to an end is still there, or is in the background somewhere. I don't expect any of my exes that broke up with me to ever come back. I had one that did after almost 20 years, but that ended in disaster, and 20 years can really make a person different. Your rule of thumb? never ever expect it. I think the only exception is if there is years of marriage and kids involved... but even then don't ever expect it. If you're still pining you had better move on. Link to post Share on other sites
mark982 Posted June 21, 2009 Share Posted June 21, 2009 i took a girl back along time ago,worse damn decision i ever made. they get dumped for a reason,don't look back. Link to post Share on other sites
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