Jersey_Mike Posted June 22, 2009 Share Posted June 22, 2009 For the past year, my co-worker Jamie and I have become close friends. It was not uncommon for us to hang out 3-4 nights a week. In addition, Jamie would constantly text me - morning, day and night. There were a few instances after a night of drinking where i'd stay the night with her, sleeping in the same bed. Nothing happened. As months went by, our conversations would become more sexual in nature. Jamie was always upfront that she liked being single and wasn't looking to date anyone. We ened up kissing, cuddling, etc on several occasions. Just a couple months ago we talked about having sex with no strings attached. She was concerned that I would want more. At the same time, she suggested we take a weekend trip together and was even emailing me links and asking me which lingerie i wanted to see her in. Everything was great until a month ago when she stopped texting and wanting to hang out less and less. At the same time, her ex-bf visited her a few times. Occasionally now she will message me during the day but not very often. We are fine around each other at work. Am I crazy for thinking she has feelings for me and that she just backed off b/c of the ex-bf? I really miss us hanging out and texting. It's driving me crazy and I think about it all the time. What do ya'll think? Link to post Share on other sites
Awesome84 Posted June 22, 2009 Share Posted June 22, 2009 I think she's still hung up on her ex. She may have a little bit of feelings for you but if she's still in love with her ex, she won't allow for anyone else to come into the picture. Best thing you can do for now is to be her friend and don't worry about her not texting or emailing you. If she likes you, she'll be back. But you need to give her time and space to re-evaluate her feelings for her ex and possibly for you (if her and her ex don't get back together). Link to post Share on other sites
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