undieing-love7 Posted November 1, 2003 Share Posted November 1, 2003 ok i don't really know where to start i don't know whats wrong with me, Ok this girl i have known for like 1 1/2 year and i have liked her the whole time i have known her but jsut got the chance/heart to say anything about 2 weeks ago and i love her but when i come face to face with her i can't say anything i feel it inside and i iknow its right and i know that i love her and i thknk she loves me too but saying anything about our relationship to her besides telling her i liked her i can't bring myself to say anything i dunno maybe its that i im scared to lose her if i come on to strong or soon anyone know anyway i can get over my fear ???? any help would be great ok another thing on my mind is that i have alot of uneasy feelings around her like sometimes i cannot jsut look at her and tell how she feels and this in fact leads to weird fellings Sometimes it’s so hard to say what you feel inside the fear of rejection can take a person from being the most confident person ever to being a scared little kid who has lost their mother in a heartbeat how can I practice what I will tell you over and over in my head and then when it comes right down to it, my words can’t come out of my mouth and I freeze why can’t I tell you how I feel? I love you , I can feel it inside of me I know that somehow I have to overcome my fears of being rejected and just stand and say everything I have held inside for so long, the way I can sit and listen to just your voice for hours and never even think about anything else block everything out or the way I feel when you laugh or smile when I look into your eyes nothing else in this world matters just you and me in our little spot in the world and I don’t know how this will end up but all I know is that the days we have spent together I wouldn’t take a sec of them back and I hope inside as a person I can be strong enough and tell you how I feel inside but until then I guess I will have to sit here with all these feelings on my shoulders and no matter how I may come off to you , you will always have a spot in my heart because I have had failed relationships before because I could never swallow my pride and say everything that was all twisted up inside of me maybe I’m a coward for not saying anything its just I can’t lose you and if I approach you directly about loving you and needing you maybe things will blow up in my face but if I don’t say anything at all I will never know how things would work out and I don’t think I can bear that burden I pray to god I will be able to search inside myself and find that something I need to tell you but for now I am going to go this is a letter i was thinking of giving her but im so scared or losing her someone plz tell me how to overcome these fears ty, Tim Link to post Share on other sites
tredulce Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 You need to add some capitalization and punctuation to the letter to enhance it's meaning ('it's kind of hard to read as is), and I think that would be a great step...and it would help you figure it out once and for all. Go for it! Good luck Link to post Share on other sites
cliche_boy Posted November 3, 2003 Share Posted November 3, 2003 didnt read much of it, but in general... if ya dont say something, ya garanteed to be in a position ya dont want to be in. If ya do say something and take a risk, you COULD be in a situation u dont want to be in but you could also find yaself in a position ya do want to be in. ...take the 50/50 chance. Link to post Share on other sites
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