ruzica Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 A coworker who works with my boyfriend emailed me randomly on facebook, shes a girl he has her number whatever, she doesnt like him though she has a boyfriend, she told me that my boyfriend of 8 years the guy I moved 5 states to be with an live with him an his family is calling another girl at their work constantly and asking her do you wanna hang out or go to the movies, she was talking to the girl that emailed me about it all the time. And I started to panick so I paced around the room, my boyfriend was in a DEEP sleep he somehow woke up he heard me talking to my mom on the phone about not knowing what to do an hes like "What is it now? What **** did you find out now tell me?" an he kept telling me to tell him and so I showed him the email she gave me an hes like you believe that? I dont even talk to a heather I dont even have time to call anyone I never have my phone by me. (Hes been hiding his phone on him or in the car for a year now.) When I got his phone one time he told me not to spy on him its bad but hes been spying on me for a year now. And I said yea right all the other **** you did to me im not gonna believe this **** anymore. He started yelling at me saying how he doesnt want to be with me anymore I should get a ticket an go home, how I am a psycho and a lunatic cuz I said he had this girl, how he hates me all kinds of names an he told me to get the F- out of his house now an get my friend to pick me up an take me to her place. Then I went into the bathroom to cry and he knocks on the door an hour later acting all nice hes like please go into the room my parents will hear everything go, an he tries to hug me I told him let go of me you cheater I go into the closet and cry an he falls asleep. Then this morning I was sleeping he goes up to me in the middle of the night kisses my cheek twice an says how he 'loves' me. Is this love? Since Ive been here the girl who told me he used to flirt with her on facebook while i was here last year in september i found out he started crying saying how he was stupid, a week ago he was saying how he was in love with me an now i find out about this an he reacts really scary. I dont know what to do, my mom says transfer my job back home an move back hes gonna end up with nobody, he has top of the line right now which is me an hes not gonna have anyone for this. What do you think of this an his behvaiour? I also called his work today to see if Heather was in an they said shes not in today, so obviously there is a heather that works there. And he told me when I asked him first 'who heather was' an how im insert all these bad names. He was soo mad like he was gonna hit me. I think its time i transfer my job an move back.. Link to post Share on other sites
2sunny Posted June 24, 2009 Share Posted June 24, 2009 I think its time i transfer my job an move back.. you are right... i think this would be the smart thing to do. Link to post Share on other sites
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