mandi22 Posted June 27, 2009 Share Posted June 27, 2009 Ok me and my bf and have been dating for 3 and a half months now. The thing is that he has a lack of trust just like many people do, but he always flips out on me for the stupidest reasons. Well what happened was, 2 weeks ago, everything was fine till he just didnt seem interested in talking to me. He said he had to get up early for school the next day and i had to go home in 10 mins, (yet he had time to fool around with me for another 40 mins..) So i asked if i could talk to him and he said he cant cuz he has to sleep for school. Then i was in the car with him, he was drving me home, and he was actin odd, so i said "whats wrong?" can u please tell me? " and he said nuthing.. So then we are in front of my house and he tells me to leave his car so he can go home to sleep. i started crying told him why hes been acting weird and what i have done. He kept telling me he doesnt want to talk just wants to go home.. so i still cried and try talking to him, then he started screaming at me to leave him alone, then he got out of his car and said leave me alone or im calling the police... that shocked me so i just went into my house. Ever since then he has been ignoring me, and was texting him every other day telling him we should talk and it was stupid, ect.. And he never contacted me back, that was the first week, so then i thought screw it, im not gunna text him so now i havent texted him for a week now.. And he still is avoiding me.. but on his myspace (he goes on everyday) i am still number one on his top friends and his status still says in a relationship... I mean he always cared so much about me, and always helped me with school and my job. And now im confused. Whats the deal? and what should i do?? Link to post Share on other sites
Lake of fire Posted June 27, 2009 Share Posted June 27, 2009 Hi Mandi22... Hugs dear...I'm sorry to hear that you went through this, it must have been a shock To tell you the truth, though you are probably still shocked, you will probably feel far far happier in the future than if you had stayed For him to over-react and hurt you as much as saying he would call the police, he must be messed up to some degree- you are better off without him really... I'm sure it's not you, it's him... But I know how awful it can be feeling shut out and ignored as if you are being kept in the dark, that's how I'm feeling now... Stay strong ~ Lake of fire ~ Link to post Share on other sites
asireen Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 Obviously, you want him more than he wants you. Treat him the way he treats you and see the reaction. If he does not care, its time to move on. The # 1 spot on myspace may just be for show. By the way, is there something he wants you are not giving him? Link to post Share on other sites
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