sports1 Posted November 2, 2003 Share Posted November 2, 2003 well I like this girl and i'm positive that she knows it but I don't know if she likes me back or not and she's away at college which makes it hard to do anything. I don't wanna bring that up when I talk to her online that I know college is on her mind right now plus I don't wanna look desperate. Well when I do talk to her online lately i'll say some like like hi,how are you? she'll say hi,alright and you? i'll ask questions and all and she'll respond back right away have some type of response so she's not blowing me off here where she's open when I ask a certain question. so is that a good sign that she could like me here, that like I said i'm for sure that she knows that I like her,where if she didn't have any ounce of interest you'd think she'd probably block me or just don't answer back to my IMs little update here recently..I talked to her a couple of times last week and she was nice I guess..everytime i'd say something she'd respond right away and all. well last night I imed her after a couple of days of not talking ... right when she got on I said hey! whats up? well she never responded,well then I noticed that she was " idle" meaning she was away and unactive but didn't have her away message on. Well 45 mins-hour later she finally came back but didn't have any response back. well I waited a few mins then turned my away message on that I had to go do something. came back few mins later and still nothing,so I was screw it i'm not gonna say anything else that she didn't respond to the other. few mins after that I ended up getting an IM from her that said " shut up" I thought to myself huh? what did I say that its been an hour or so when I said something last haha. well right then she IMED me again saying that it wasn't her that sent that and she was sooooooooo sorry. I went lol and said it was alright..she said she was sorry again but she had to go. I told her to have a good night and she said see ya. i'm curious what that was all about then that led to that but anyway could see like me or not? Link to post Share on other sites
ArdeaCandidissima Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 She was goofing around with her girlfriends and one of them pulled a gag. She might be interested in you, or she may just be polite. We're not mind readers here. Link to post Share on other sites
RedneckRomeo Posted November 12, 2003 Share Posted November 12, 2003 i really dont think we have much to go on. i have female friends (good friends, but just friends still) who always reply to my messages right away with something to say, but that doesn't mean they're interested in me. It just means that I'm not the kind of guy that they can't stand, but that I'm a good friend of theirs. The fact that she always responds and always has something to say doesn't necessarily mean she likes you - but it does mean you're not bothering her by talking to her - she likes to talk to you, thats about it. The thing where someone wrote 'shut up' to you - yeah, i agree with Ardea in saying it was probably her and her girlfriends goofing off. Only way you can tell if she's interested is to either ask and have her tell you, have her tell you without asking, or to see how she acts around you in person. There may be other ways - but thats all I can think of for the time being. You have a chance - yes, but just from what you've given us - it is impossible to tell for sure. She could just be a really good friend, like some of my friends are. Link to post Share on other sites
wiseOLDman Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 I'm from the old school which essentially means that I went thru all this posturing in the Pre-IM days. IM is an outstanding tool when used correctly, but I honestly don't think it's the best measure for where one stands in a potential relationship. Have you ever SPOKEN with this woman? See, I kinda view IM as the alternative to a method that was used long ago. Asking one of her friends- "Would you talk to her and see if she likes me?" I digress- Next time you're online with her, ask her if it's ok for you to call her. If she'll give you her phone number and agree to talk to you, then you'll know that you've at least been invited to the game. best of luck Link to post Share on other sites
Riles Posted November 13, 2003 Share Posted November 13, 2003 Are you sure you want to do a long distance relationship? I can tell you from expeirence those really suck. Luckily mine turned out for the better though, and was well worth it Link to post Share on other sites
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