Brady_to_Moss Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Girls i have met in college and high school...dont appeal to me. Maybe only about 10% of them. Most of the girls in college just annoy me. They are loud, only like to drink and just seem like strait bitchs, like they are the queen. Now i am not saying all girls are like this, but most i have met are and i cant stand it and that is one reason now why i like being single so much. Am i too picky? or should i be picky becasue its my life and i want the right girl? Link to post Share on other sites
Sweetcheripie Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Picky is good! The right one will come along. Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I've only envisioned myself with maybe 5 guys in my entire life. I'd say that 10% is entirely too much. Link to post Share on other sites
Jilly Bean Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I think it's fine, since 99% of the women out there will dismiss you anyhow. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted June 28, 2009 Author Share Posted June 28, 2009 I've only envisioned myself with maybe 5 guys in my entire life. I'd say that 10% is entirely too much. Sometimes i think 10% is to much as well LOL....5 guys huh? Mind me asking how old you are? Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 23. But then again, I'm not a big fan of the 'many fish in the sea, plenty of guys/girls for each of us out there' camp. Link to post Share on other sites
WTRanger Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 Where are you meeting these girls? Perhaps it's time to find a new place to meet girls? Are there student groups that you may be interested in looking at? If you meet a girl there, then you at least have one thing in common. You can just proceed from that point. And no, I don't think you're too picky. In fact you have standards and you are not really willing to compromise them for perceived happiness. That's commendable. Link to post Share on other sites
lazlow99 Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I'm the same. Most of the girls at my university are too naive and self centered for me to want to have a relationship with them. I think being picky is a good thing. Link to post Share on other sites
on_point Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 I wonder what you're being picky about. Looks or personality or both? I know sometimes when I see pretty girls seeking attention or being loud, I automatically write them off as annoying or bitches..but that's not really fair ya know? I think you may be viewing some of the girls with prejudices? Link to post Share on other sites
foxzilla Posted July 1, 2009 Share Posted July 1, 2009 A vast majority of younger woman tend to need a large amount of attention to feel good about themselves, and I can tell you from living in a dorm...stay away if loud, drunk, attention seeking girls annoy you, that's about 85%-95% of them. I moved out of the dorms for that exact reason. I got stuck with a really prissy girl who said 'o.m.g. and like' every 5 second and had the IQ of a dead squirrel. You might just want to wait if your expecting more... I have still yet to meet a girl I actually like as a friend, if you find one that loves video games, cars and sports as much as I do. let me know, ha ha. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted July 4, 2009 Author Share Posted July 4, 2009 A vast majority of younger woman tend to need a large amount of attention to feel good about themselves, and I can tell you from living in a dorm...stay away if loud, drunk, attention seeking girls annoy you, that's about 85%-95% of them. I moved out of the dorms for that exact reason. I got stuck with a really prissy girl who said 'o.m.g. and like' every 5 second and had the IQ of a dead squirrel. You might just want to wait if your expecting more... I have still yet to meet a girl I actually like as a friend, if you find one that loves video games, cars and sports as much as I do. let me know, ha ha. I never have anything in commen with these girls in school. I am big into sports and cars but girls that i know seem to just...care about things such as looks where i could care less what you look like really. I do plan on waiting a while becase girls that are 20 and below..just dont appeal to me. Girls in the 23+ range do however. Link to post Share on other sites
xxxheartbrokenxxx Posted July 5, 2009 Share Posted July 5, 2009 Nothing wrong with being picky at all - I am very seldom attracted to a guy enough that I want to actually get involved with them. My friends all think I'm way too fussy though - because of this, being perpetualy single is a problem but then I would rather be this way than not selective enough about who I date/sleep with. I think many of my friends are not choosy enough with partners, alot think I'm a snob with impossibly high standards... Link to post Share on other sites
Els Posted July 5, 2009 Share Posted July 5, 2009 I never have anything in commen with these girls in school. I am big into sports and cars but girls that i know seem to just...care about things such as looks where i could care less what you look like really. Erm... I'm pretty sure your previous posts show that you do care, actually. Not that it's a bad thing, just pointing it out. It's a pet peeve of mine when a guy evidently shows that a woman's looks is one of the major things that he pays attention to, but yet claims he doesn't care what they look like. 'All my friends have beautiful girls except me', 'I'll be seeing this really attractive girl...' .. One who truly doesn't care about looks, doesn't use looks as the sole adjective when describing a girl that he'd like to try his luck with. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted July 5, 2009 Author Share Posted July 5, 2009 Nothing wrong with being picky at all - I am very seldom attracted to a guy enough that I want to actually get involved with them. My friends all think I'm way too fussy though - because of this, being perpetualy single is a problem but then I would rather be this way than not selective enough about who I date/sleep with. I think many of my friends are not choosy enough with partners, alot think I'm a snob with impossibly high standards... I have a few girls that are friends and they are just like this as well. I think if i were a girl, i would even be more picky than i am now. Link to post Share on other sites
xxxheartbrokenxxx Posted July 5, 2009 Share Posted July 5, 2009 I have a few girls that are friends and they are just like this as well. I think if i were a girl, i would even be more picky than i am now. Yeah I find that with guys, the best are already taken. It would seem in my town that the girls out number the guys, and like I mentioned before all the decent ones are already in relationships, I just get all the dregs attempting to chat me up! One key factor in my extreme fussiness is the fact I am still very much in love with a certain someone and cannot seem to move on. The longing for someone is very painful. Unless someone totally out of this world comes along and sweeps me off my feet then I will just remain single. I do not see the point in getting with a random man just for the sake of it, there are many people who do this just to avoid being single. Link to post Share on other sites
Isolde Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 It's normal to be selective. No one's compatible with that many other people. It's good you're actually not willing to date random girls just to get sex. Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 I haven't been remotely interested in anyone since last year. I don't even remember the last time I did a head turn for someone. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Brady_to_Moss Posted July 14, 2009 Author Share Posted July 14, 2009 ^^ I am the same way...havent seen any girl that i fell over for. Oh well...i guess being picky is good Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Drawn Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 90% is quite low I think, I'm much pickier than that - but not in a bad way, I think it comes with knowing what you want. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 Girls i have met in college and high school...dont appeal to me. Maybe only about 10% of them. Most of the girls in college just annoy me. They are loud, only like to drink and just seem like strait bitchs, like they are the queen. Now i am not saying all girls are like this, but most i have met are and i cant stand it and that is one reason now why i like being single so much. Am i too picky? or should i be picky becasue its my life and i want the right girl? dude just bang 'em, forget about "being with them"...sow your seed, shoot your rocks, have fun. life gets too serious when you get older man. Link to post Share on other sites
crew Posted July 31, 2009 Share Posted July 31, 2009 90 % is rather high. I've just recently joined a dating website because I am so put off by the guys at uni that I meet. Dating websites aren't any better. I would say that I am interested only in about 1 out of 50 profiles that I read. And I only read those that have a remotely intresting headline. Link to post Share on other sites
relationship_learner Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 I dont think you are too picky about it. Being cautious is a good thing actually since you will not end up with a person who is totally incompatible to you. In my opinion, more mature people tend to be more picky in choosing their partners. What do you guys think? Link to post Share on other sites
Samari Posted August 5, 2009 Share Posted August 5, 2009 No, your standards are fine. I have the exact same actually. But a good amount of the girls at my college aren't like that thank goodness. Link to post Share on other sites
Chubbi Posted August 7, 2009 Share Posted August 7, 2009 I'm very picky too... I don't know a statistic though. It depends. Link to post Share on other sites
dunstable Posted August 16, 2009 Share Posted August 16, 2009 They ... seem like strait bitchs, like they are the queen. Picky is good but if you can't express yourself more articulately than in the above quote then, IMHO, not many girls are going to regard you as a catch! I'm not being facetious. Link to post Share on other sites
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