nadyenka Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 I met this guy over the Internet. He's from the US and I'm from Russia. We clicked as soon as we started talking. We have been friends for around six months. For some reason unknown to me, he avoided saying he had a girlfriend. I had already fallen for him by the time he told me He doesn't talk much about his girlfriend. They don't see each other often, which means I talk to him more than she does. He seems to enjoy my "online" company. We always share our thoughts and feelings. About two months ago we started exchanging postcards. According to what he says, my postcards make him very happy. He often (very often, indeed) says he would love to meet me in person. He's even taking Russian lessons. Is he starting to like me or what? What can I do? Link to post Share on other sites
Lucky_One Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 If you have never met him, and if he avoids talking about his GF to you, then how do you know how often he talks to her or sees her? Link to post Share on other sites
hoping2heal Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 First of all, he doesn't seem very trustworthy. If he has a girlfriend, what is he doing having an emotional affair with a girl online? I wouldn't trust this gy as far as I could throw him. Link to post Share on other sites
whimsical_memory Posted June 28, 2009 Share Posted June 28, 2009 If you have never met him, and if he avoids talking about his GF to you, then how do you know how often he talks to her or sees her? I know it was not meant to be funny, but that made me giggle. And it brings up a more serious point. People that are involved in online relationships are not really 'involved' in anything more than exchanging e-mails and possibly phone calls with someone. You are not dating, you do not have a boy/girlfriend. You have someone that you enjoy chatting with. You might have extremely deep conversations with this person, and that is wonderful. But then again, that person (or yourself) might just be saying things that the other person wants to hear (read). That being said, yes I have had friends that have been in successful 'online' relationships, but the reason they were successful is because they went 'offline' quickly (they actually met, dated in real life, and then got married). But, seriously..you have no idea how often he sees his girlfriend. Or his wife, because if he did not tell you about a 'girlfriend', what is to stop him from being married? Of course, maybe the 'girlfriend' and he are a long-distance/online relationship too? Link to post Share on other sites
asireen Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 Get real my friend. I bet he has multiple online friends, probably in different countries, and is probably saying the same things to them as he says to you. I myself know my US based friends who have multiple 'online girlfriends' in Philippines, Thailand, Russia, Ukraine, Costa Rica and others. I would treat any online relationship, especially involving different countries, with extreme caution. Link to post Share on other sites
Ruby Slippers Posted June 29, 2009 Share Posted June 29, 2009 He probably wants to see you naked on cam. This guy is sneaking around looking for a woman in Russia while he has a girlfriend? LOSER. Link to post Share on other sites
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