CaS016 Posted November 4, 2003 Share Posted November 4, 2003 Okay, so I got these two friends right whom about a 2 months ago I began to become attracted to. The two of them are best friends. Anyway, about a month ago I made a tough decision between the two and picked one of them who I felt I would best like to be with. And I recently told that person how I felt ...she told me she didn't want to date me because she’s doesn't date friends. Personally I thought this was a classic BS excuse, because I believe that few relationships will ever work out in the end if you aren't friends with the people before you date them. Anyway, not to get off topic, now that I know how she really feels, I am after the other one who as I said, is the best friend of the one I just asked. First off, I don't know if I should feel bad here. I mean it's not like I have dated the girl I just asked, but you know it may seem weird or even upset the girl I just asked out, maybe even that I am out for revenge or something, (which I am not) if I go and ask out her best friend. I just made a decision between the two, got turned down by the one I chose, and would like to go out with the other one now. I don’t want to upset the girl I just asked because I want to remain friends with her. Right now we’re still cool, and neither of them know what I am thinking right now. But I really do like the other one too much to just forget about this. Anybody have any ideas about how to go about this without upsetting anybody? Mainly, I want the two of them to remain best friends no matter what but I do want to date this girl. Any ideas. I don’t just want to let this thing go. Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Dem Posted November 6, 2003 Share Posted November 6, 2003 Ok, firstly I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out with the girl you chose. But I'm a bit concerned about you now just switching to the other girl, because it seems like you're just taking what you can get. But, I'm not in your shoes so this is just an outside observation. If this isn't the case, and if you really like the second girl, I see only one really practical solution, honesty. My advice to you is this, tell girl number one how you feel about girl number two, tell her how much you like girl number two but you wanted to tell her(girl number 1) before you approached girl number two so that she(girl number one) wouldn't get the wrong idea. Then, follow your heart and ask out girl number two, hope my advice helps. Dem Link to post Share on other sites
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