jessicasilver Posted July 6, 2009 Share Posted July 6, 2009 my bf is on holiday at the moment, we are really close and normally text eachother every second of the day! just before he went on holiday i noticed a slight change in him, he was acting very moody with me and we kept argueing about trusting eachother! i told him i trusted him and i didnt mind him talking to other girls on holiday etc but he doesnt trust me and assumed that i would cheat on him while he was away (i have never cheated in my life and im not planning to either)! im just a bit worried now as the last time he texted me was on saturday saying he run out of credit and he wanted me to get him more! so i did and sent him the validation code on sunday but i havent heard from him since is it wrong to expect a reply or even just a thank you? i know his on holiday and i have given him his space but the fact that he hasnt even bothered to thank me or tell me he got the credit is worrying me alot! what do guys normally get up to when their on holiday ? Link to post Share on other sites
Dexter Morgan Posted July 16, 2009 Share Posted July 16, 2009 my bf is on holiday at the moment, we are really close and normally text eachother every second of the day! just before he went on holiday i noticed a slight change in him, he was acting very moody with me and we kept argueing about trusting eachother! i told him i trusted him and i didnt mind him talking to other girls on holiday etc but he doesnt trust me and assumed that i would cheat on him while he was away uh, well he is the one going away. If he thinks cheating happens too easily when two people are apart, then why is he the one going away? kinda stupid if you ask me. what do guys normally get up to when their on holiday ? not saying this is the case and this is what he is doing, but the only thing I can think of is that if I were to go away without my significant, beloved other.....that I'm wanting to mix it up with other women. (no, I don't do that, its just the only reason I could think of for not having my woman go with me...she will always go with me) So if he isn't the trusting type and thinks you will cheat when apart, why is he the one leaving on vacation without you? And if he thinks you will cheat when he is away, he might just think, "she probably will, I might as well too". Or the fact that he is arguing with you about cheating might be projection and he knows very well him cheating might be a possibility. Again, not saying he is or will, but his behavior throws up red flags. Link to post Share on other sites
mac10688 Posted July 16, 2009 Share Posted July 16, 2009 My cousin always accuses his girlfriends of cheating after he cheated on them. In fact he did it the other day. I brought a girl over and while his girlfriend was sleeping he confessed to the girl I brought he had a crush her. The next night him and his girlfriend got into a fight about her cheating on him. His evidence was irrational. He only accused her because he had a guilty conscience. Link to post Share on other sites
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