asuman Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 Yes, basically. He knew everything about me, who I dated and have sex with. We talk all the time. I have noticed his attitude changed when my ex broke up with me. He became more familiar, like more intimate. This should be a warning to those who want to friends but actually want more than that. Don't do this to yourself! Always assume after the break-up that it is over! I say.. more power to him! What did he have to lose by going for it? Link to post Share on other sites
bella16 Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 Bella- You are wise"! If only I had listened to peoples advice on here at the start and gone NC after the breakup, Im pretty sure things would be different. Thank you. But don't get me wrong...the first couple of days I did all the wrong things, cried to him, begged him, and poured my heart out to him. Its always the hardest right when it happens, you sometimes can't control your emotions so you'll try anything. But I'm telling you a week went by, and I was out having fun and getting over it, and no lie...right after that he started contacting me (like a radar went off in his head that I didn't care anymore)! I did still care, but I have everyday things to do in my life and I refuse to let one person stop me from living like I should. The breakup wasnt over anything bad at all...just a misunderstanding about my happiness. Now we are back together and I can honestly say it was because I did NC! But hang in there please! Do NC not only for her, but for yourself mainly...time heals all wounds and you will find yourself back to normal again. Link to post Share on other sites
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