raw_sugar Posted July 8, 2009 Share Posted July 8, 2009 ok, its a bit of a long story, im going to try to simplify as much as possible. I work in a restoration company that requires me to be in the shop or on the field. We recently had one of the people working in our companys' office move into the shop to run the equipment cage and since he has started I have been his assistant whenever we are short on field jobs. I've been interested in him since day one, but I've kept our relationship semi-professional (we used to flirt a bit here and there), not wanting to presue anything because of the work factor and I wasn't 100% sure he was into me. Recently he went to my friend Jay in the warehouse and made some comments about me, saying he wanted to hook up but was too shy to initiate anything. I decided to make the first move, got his number and asked him if he wanted to hang out sometime through text. He told me that he was sorry but he had to much baggage and no time. Not wanting to make things awkward I told him "fair enough, no worries :)" he responded with "do you understand, really?" I told him "yes I do, I know what its like to have too much on your plate, don't worry about it" He thanked me and after I responded he got very sexual with his texting, and asked me some personal questions about my sexual preferences, which proved to be compatible with what he was into. I found out shortly after that he was in a relationship with a girl in the office, but when my friend Jay casually asked him he said they were seeing eachother. Since all of this has happened we have worked in the warehouse together for a day and a half and its been nothing but sexual remarks and flirting. The girl he is seeing has completely turned against me (there are some rumors about him and I due to the amount of time we spend in together at work and because my coworkers really have nothing better to do with their time). I want to know what to make of all these mixed messages. According to Jay, he thinks im super hot and wants me, and he is only interested in sex and alot of it but nothing serious because he just got out of a long term thing with a physco who pretty much stalked him when he started dating again, and I am not much of a relationship person that likes to have a steady f#$* so it seams as if it could work out but I really dont know what to think of all these mixed messages...help? Link to post Share on other sites
Author raw_sugar Posted July 8, 2009 Author Share Posted July 8, 2009 I just realized this post isn't appropriate for this thread because it is for platonic relationships, I will re post elsewhere. Im such a newb Link to post Share on other sites
tblucky Posted August 8, 2009 Share Posted August 8, 2009 Run from these men like the plague. Guys like him are nothing but trouble. Link to post Share on other sites
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