Ronni_W Posted July 15, 2009 Share Posted July 15, 2009 Hey NL. You're hurting...that's not being "negative" or "lame", it's just feeling hurt. And of course you're not disappointing anybody. It's fine that you're feeling tired...it IS normal -- tired, exhausted, depleted is all part of what you're going through. There's another thread about 'break-up songs'. Keep in mind that my 'first love' break-up was about a hundred years ago but the song that got me through the worst times was "I will survive" by Gloria Gaynor. Check it out and let me know if you want to share that one with me...or which one you want to use. Big hugs. You WILL survive! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 15, 2009 Author Share Posted July 15, 2009 Hey Ronni how are you???, my mom made a passion fruit chessecake, very good!, I wish I could share it with you, after all this I will have to burn a lot of calories!!!!!!, I will have time to burn them when I get better!!!!, this is for you Ronni, I just Love it!!!! I Will Survive Gloria Gaynor Composição: Belzunces At first, I was afraid, I was petrified. Kept thinkin' I could never live Without you by my side, But then I spent so many nights Thinkin' how you did me wrong. And I grew strong And I learned how to get along. And so you're back from outer space. I just walked in to find you here With that sad look upon your face. I should've changed that stupid lock, I should've made you leave your key, If I had known, for just one second, YouÂ’d be back to bother me. Well, now go! Walk out the door! Just turn around now, 'Cause you're not welcome anymore! Weren't you the one Who tried to hurt me with goodbye? Did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no, not I! I will survive! Oh, as long as I know how to love, I know I'll stay alive! I've got all my life to live. I've got all my love to give. And IÂ’ll survive! I will survive! Hey, Hey! It took all the strength I had Not to fall apart And trying hard to mend the pieces Of my broken heart. And I spent, oh, so many nights Just feeling sorry for myself. I used to cry, But now I hold my head up high! And you'll see me, somebody new, IÂ’m not that chained up little person Still in love with you. And so you felt like droppin' in And just expect me to be free, But now I'm savin' all my lovin' For someone who's lovin' me! Go now! Go! Walk out the door! Just turn around now! 'Cause you're not welcome anymore! Weren't you the one Who tried to break me with goodbye? Did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no, not I! I will survive! Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive! I've got all my life to live. I've got all my love to give. And I'll survive. I will survive! Oohh.. Go now! Go! Walk out the door! Just turn around now! 'Cause you're not welcome anymore! Weren't you the one Who tried to break me with goodbye? Did you think I'd crumble? Did you think I'd lay down and die? Oh no, not I! I will survive! Oh, as long as I know how to love I know I'll stay alive! And I've got all my life to live. And I've got all my love to give. And I'll survive. I will survive! I will survive! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 15, 2009 Author Share Posted July 15, 2009 Hey any suggestions for super cool brake up song!!!, but the ones like "I will survive", with high spirit!!! are wellcome!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted July 15, 2009 Share Posted July 15, 2009 I didn't know that song had so many words! So, here's a "project" for you -- see if you can learn all the words by heart, by...Thursday. No? Okay, Saturday, then. Passionfruit cheesecake...sounds tasty, for sure. Stick "I will survive" on the iPod, and go jogging -- learn the words and burn some cals at the same time Have a happy Wednesday, NL. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 15, 2009 Author Share Posted July 15, 2009 That is an excellent!!! that is a great idea!, I really like the song, and I also didn't know it has so many words!!!, it made me cry!!!, LOL!!! everything make me cry this days! LOL!!!!, thanks!!! have a nice wednesday you too! Link to post Share on other sites
Leveller Posted July 15, 2009 Share Posted July 15, 2009 If it helps you NL look at the lyrics to the Counting Crows song 'Anna Beings' from August and Everything After, particularly the line 'I'm not gonna bend, I'm not gonna break, and I'm not gonna worry about it anymore'. You might also like to look at Teddy Thompson 'Seperate Ways'. Both have helped me and I hope they help you. My thoughts are with you, hugs:love:. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted July 16, 2009 Share Posted July 16, 2009 As for breakup song I suggest... Hinder "without you" and 12 stones "broken road" two of my favorites right now! Nothing better than top down 120 on a backroad jammin to those Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 16, 2009 Author Share Posted July 16, 2009 Thanks all of you for your suggestions, I will look for all of them, Im making Mix Cds' with Good brake up songs!, whatever that means LOL!. My sleeping patterns are a mess! right now, any suggestions for that??? and for the eating also????, thank you!!!! hoping to read you advise soon!!!! PD: Im very nervous because this sunday I'll have to see the jerk!!! in a MTB competition, because I promise my friend I was going to help her!!!, so I have to go!, recommendations????, Hugs!!! for all of you!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted July 16, 2009 Share Posted July 16, 2009 What's MTB? edit: nevermind forgot for a sec my comp is indeed equipt with google ;-) Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 16, 2009 Author Share Posted July 16, 2009 LOL!!! don't worry??? did you find it?, just in case is mountain bike! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 18, 2009 Author Share Posted July 18, 2009 Hello everyone!, like I told you before this might be a rough weekend, I may have to see the "GUY", on the competition, I'm very nervous, well, is acting normal the best???, I have been really really depressed, today before making a house call of one of my clients I had to drive for a while before getting there, and I actually arrived a little late because tears where coming out of my eyes and it wouldn't stop, This is hard!, well guys I really miss you!!!, your comments and all!!! I hope to hear from you soon!!!!, HUGS!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted July 18, 2009 Share Posted July 18, 2009 Hey NL. Hope you're feeling better. My suggestion for Sunday would be to look your fabulous best, be your wonderful self, and hold your head up high. If you do come face-to-face, just smile, say hello and keep moving. You do NOT have to be sociable just because he may want or expect that. Tell him you don't wish to chat with him, or make whatever excuse...you're rushing to the washroom, late for your spaceship pick-up, whatever. After my first relationship ended, the guy kept calling to "stay in touch." After about the 3rd or 4th, I realized I didn't HAVE to be friends with him just cos he wanted/was okay with. So I told him, "Please don't call me again...I really don't like you much anymore." Which WAS the truth...but I still loved him. Point is, and like it says in whatever commercial, "Don't let them see you sweat!" -- if you have to, tell him that you don't like people who can treat people the way he treated you, so please excuse you because you don't hang with people you don't like. Let me know when you've got "I will survive" memorized...I'm working on finding you another to memorize after Hugs...and good luck on Sunday! In the end, however you do it and whatever happens is going to be perfect. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 18, 2009 Author Share Posted July 18, 2009 Hello Ronni, today I will go to help to the pre-event, I hope he doesn't go!!!, I will do what to told me so, but considering how "shy" he is, he probably won't even say hi to me!, well in any case I will do what to told me so!!!!!!, Hey I almost now all the lyrics, my problem is I always change the lyrics of the songs LOL!!!, I Well I will right later after I get home from the pre-event to tell you how it went!!!, Hugs for you, and thanks for caring!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 19, 2009 Author Share Posted July 19, 2009 Hey!!!!, I went to the pre-event, I though he wasn't going! and I was very happy there when the event finished he appear like in a rush!, saw me gave me a kiss and a hug, and just continue his way talk to somefriend just infront of me and left!, all that like in 7 minutes, I didn't seek him or any like that, I was sittion in my chair!, well I was in almost in the door!, crappy crappy crappy!!!!! thats how I fell!, and after that I just start shaking!, this is horrible, I just feel like dying!!, I miss him, and I just wish he comes back!, I want everything to be like before!, I love him, but I also hate him for treating me like this!, and I olny have you guy to talk! I don't have nobody else! I feel so lonely!, so sad, so useless!, I don't see my purpose in this world, or anywere, even that lame jerk didn't want me, no one wants me, I even have to pay someone to hear me LOL!, because I almost don't have any friends! Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted July 19, 2009 Share Posted July 19, 2009 Hey NL. The good news is that you survived it, yes? And another bonus is that you now know what to expect on Sunday -- forewarned is forearmed, as the saying goes. Your feelings of sadness and loneliness are par for the course...pretty much "normal and expected." Wishing for the impossible; for "everything to be like before" is also common...it's just to remember that going back is impossible. New things have happened and "everything" is changed. Know what I mean? Your thoughts aren't accurately representing reality -- that is just crap that you are "useless" and that no one wants you. It's just crap that you're telling yourself, and it will only make you feel more miserable. If you feel that your friendship/social circle isn't large enough, then of course you must do something about it -- you are the only one who can! Here's hoping that you'll be able to enjoy the event on Sunday, Hugs. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 19, 2009 Author Share Posted July 19, 2009 Hey, the even just finished! it was good until I saw him!, then it was crappy, I think that maybee I need to talk to him, maybe I wasn't clear enough, because actually we didn't talk a lot when we ended, he just told me something and I roll with it!, maybe if we talk and analize deeper the problems they could work out!, I don't know!, wht do you think? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 24, 2009 Author Share Posted July 24, 2009 Hey I miss you all guys!, everything just the same!, well! I'm feeling a little better, at least today!, I think that is a nice thing, I'm finally realizing that there is nothing I couldn't changed or that I could change, things are what they are, and for more that I beg to God for this guy to come to his senses, he decides what is best for me, not what I want!, I still cry, and feel bad, but I have to move on, I had many plans before him, and I can't let them fade away!, at the end like I said before is Gods' will, so!, I just hope tomorrow to be a better day!, Hugs for you guys!!! I miss to read your posts! Link to post Share on other sites
Leveller Posted July 24, 2009 Share Posted July 24, 2009 Hang in there NL. Life will get easier. Remember there's never been a day that lasts forever. Stay true to your plans and your life goals and remain strong. Sending hugs and good wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 25, 2009 Author Share Posted July 25, 2009 Hello Leveller!, how are you?, I'm doing better, like you said, I'm trying to focus on my goals and life, I just want time to pass very fast!, so I feel as good as new soon!, I started to do my thinks again!, little by little, I have lots of dreams with him, lots of them, I still keep hope ( silly? ), well, I hope to talk to you soon! Hugs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Leveller Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Hi NL, thanks for asking. I'm not very well at the moment-I have picked up the flu. You certainly sound more chirpy and I am glad. Sending you hugs and warm wishes. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 27, 2009 Author Share Posted July 27, 2009 Hey Leveller!!!!, how sad to hear that you are sick, I hope you get well soon!, lots of fluids and rest!, did you see a doctor?, well I hope you are feeling better already, a big hug for you!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Nanalinda Posted July 28, 2009 Author Share Posted July 28, 2009 Hey leveller!!! I hope you are doing much better today!!!!!!, get well soon!!!, hey do you know something about Ronni???, I haven't heard from her in a whileee!!! I miss you both!!!!:bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
Ronni_W Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 Hey NL How's it going on your side? It may sometimes feel that you're moving forward at a snail's pace but...at least it is forward movement, right? I've been entertaining house guests and doing family reunion-type things. It is fun and all, but can also get a little tiring. Anyway. Sending hugs and good stuff. Link to post Share on other sites
Leveller Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 I am glad, very glad you are doing better. As for me I have chicken pox so not feeling too good. I went to the doctor yesterday. Warm wishes to you, you will get there. Link to post Share on other sites
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