Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 After watching about 50 trailers for The Time Traveler's Wife, it finally hit me: BF looks like Eric Bana! Link to post Share on other sites
D-Lish Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 I can't even GET mine to do it. He's too OCD. He has issues with cleanliness and odor. He won't go downstairs, he's that crazy about it. Really?????? Dealbreaker!!!! I wouldn't go out with a dude that won't take the South train. Link to post Share on other sites
Lyssa Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 I can't even GET mine to do it. He's too OCD. He has issues with cleanliness and odor. He won't go downstairs, he's that crazy about it. *speechless* Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 Really?????? Dealbreaker!!!! I wouldn't go out with a dude that won't take the South train. I know, right? That combined with the must-shower-immed-after-sex thing would really just push me over the edge. Link to post Share on other sites
Citizen Erased Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 *speechless* I know. Sorry LB, I just would not put up with that. Link to post Share on other sites
anne1707 Posted July 21, 2009 Share Posted July 21, 2009 What can I say about my Wuggle? he is the first and last thing I want to see every day of my lifehe makes me want to improve myself - but for my benefit, not hiswhen he holds me in his arms, I know I am homehe understands what it takes to make a marriage workhe has given me another chance when many others wouldn'the indulges me - shoes, handbags,......he puts up with my hot temperwe share the same dreams of our future togetherhe is the most spiritual person I have ever methe has both logic and creativity within himhe is very, very patient - yet does not suffer foolshe has the sexiest voice everhe is modest yet recognises his strengths as well as his weaknesseshe is always willing to learn and open to new ideashe knows he is not always rightbut he knows when he ishe has a moustache (I know - but it really does suit him)he rubs my feethe likes catshe has good hands - strong, masculine yet gentlehe is always true to himselfI guess that's a start for now :love: Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 BF is always looking for ways to make me happy. I heart him. Link to post Share on other sites
HsMomma Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 H has finally recovered enough from his back problems, so this weekend he replaced the burned out ballast in our overhead kitchen light. I have light in the kitchen again!!! He's the BEST!:love: Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 H brings me coffee in bed any morning after Ive had cocktails. For some reason, I appreciate this more than any other single thing he does. Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 H brings me coffee in bed any morning after Ive had cocktails. For some reason, I appreciate this more than any other single thing he does. You have cocktails in the morning before coffee? Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 I have yet to see a guy really compliment his woman. Geez. I mean, it's nice to see the ladies fawn all over their men but quite frustrating to realize that so little men feel the same about their women. Women compliments to men in thread: 1,000. Men Compliments to women in thread: 5 Link to post Share on other sites
Touche Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 I have yet to see a guy really compliment his woman. Geez. I mean, it's nice to see the ladies fawn all over their men but quite frustrating to realize that so little men feel the same about their women. Women compliments to men in thread: 1,000. Men Compliments to women in thread: 5 Hmmm, I don't know...speaking for my guy, he compliments me all the time - just not on a message board. Link to post Share on other sites
HsMomma Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Hmmm, I don't know...speaking for my guy, he compliments me all the time - just not on a message board. Ditto for mine. I guess I could ask him to come on & do that, but since he does give me compliments IRL, no real need! Link to post Share on other sites
Trialbyfire Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 I have yet to see a guy really compliment his woman.I've seen some backhanded compliments but I do agree that we have a different male mindset, on LS. Geez. I mean, it's nice to see the ladies fawn all over their men but quite frustrating to realize that so little men feel the same about their women. Women compliments to men in thread: 1,000. Men Compliments to women in thread: 5I can only speak for my RL experiences and yes, men do compliment their wimmins. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 I've seen some backhanded compliments but I do agree that we have a different male mindset, on LS. Yeah, I saw those as well and decided they were only worthy of being ignored. Link to post Share on other sites
Stockalone Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Geez. I mean, it's nice to see the ladies fawn all over their men but quite frustrating to realize that so little men feel the same about their women. You can't draw that conclusion from this thread because men do make compliments IRL. The idea of gushing over your SO on a thread like this, takes some getting used to as it is not something men typically do. It's a bit mushy. That doesn't mean that men don't love their partners. Also, the shortage of male responses could have something to do with the demographic structure of LS. I believe there are more women than men and the single guys have no partner to talk about. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Most often, the posts that are made on this board deal with things like infidelity, lack of trust, the friend-zone (is there a worse dungeon?), sexual denial, divorce, yadda yadda yadda. Not surprising, I suppose, given the nature of the board. So let's throw a change-up into the mix. Write something about your partner that you absolutely adore, something that makes your heart go pitter-pat! Brag about them a little! Great idea! Very necessary. My gf can be very sweet and giving. She loves taking care of me sometimes. And she's a rockstar in bed! Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 You have cocktails in the morning before coffee? Ha! No, no although that would go far to explain a LOT. He brings me coffee in bed the morning AFTER Ive had cocktails the night before. He rarely drinks, so its sweet that he is so accommodating. Link to post Share on other sites
Jersey Shortie Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 You can't draw that conclusion from this thread because men do make compliments IRL. The idea of gushing over your SO on a thread like this, takes some getting used to as it is not something men typically do. It's a bit mushy. That doesn't mean that men don't love their partners. Also, the shortage of male responses could have something to do with the demographic structure of LS. I believe there are more women than men and the single guys have no partner to talk about. Yes, I can draw conclusions from this thread. Do you have an SO Stockalone on the attitudes of women to their partners and the attitudes of men toward theirs. Do you have an SO Stockalone? Link to post Share on other sites
2sure Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Now that I think about it, possibly a Bloody Mary would be nice. Link to post Share on other sites
Stockalone Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Yes, I can draw conclusions from this thread. ... on the attitudes of women to their partners and the attitudes of men toward theirs. To say that men don't care about their partners because there aren't many men posting in this thread is leaping to conclusions. Granted, it is fair to say that the male LSers apparently have not much interest in participating in this thread. Frankly, I am curious to know why that is the case too, but that says nothing about how men feel about their partners. For all we know, a man could make the woman he loves plenty of heartfelt compliments each day and never post about it here. You could post a new thread and ask the women of LS if their SO does make them compliments. How often and if that is enough for them or if they wish there would be more compliments and if they think those compliments are heartfelt or if they feel that their partner isn't really sincere. Right now, you hardly have a leg to stand on with your conclusion. "If a man doesn't post here to say something nice about his SO, he doesn't care about her at all." That seems to be your conclusion. I don't think that is an accurate assumption. Do you have an SO Stockalone? Nope. Link to post Share on other sites
Phateless Posted July 27, 2009 Share Posted July 27, 2009 Now that I think about it, possibly a Bloody Mary would be nice. Sounds good right about now. I didn't get lunch but that would do nicely instead! I did have an Irish Coffee last night. My gf genuinely wants to improve on the things that cause friction between us. Even though it's slow going, at least she's trying. Link to post Share on other sites
BWLoca Posted July 28, 2009 Share Posted July 28, 2009 The way he won't say a simple phrase like "I miss you" but he'll tell me how he wakes up everyday clutching the tank top I left at his house Link to post Share on other sites
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