heatherb16 Posted July 12, 2009 Share Posted July 12, 2009 I'm trying again. It sounds weak but I did it for 4 days. We have been broken up for 3 weeks. He is going on a little vacation and wont be back until the 20th. I'm hoping I will be able to remain in NC at least until then. It's very difficult because my best friend has been on vacation for 2 weeks and wont be back for another week. I've still been attempting to keep busy, though. Anyways, I don't think that going into complete NC for months at a time is really going to help me. I'm trying it little by little and gradually working my way up. I just think that this is the perfect time to do so. Is this okay? Does it seem right? Or should I completely shut him out? I still want him here. I want his comfort, still, but I'm definitely not letting him get me for free, like he did before. Link to post Share on other sites
Nedved Posted July 12, 2009 Share Posted July 12, 2009 I think you need to go full time NC till you heal. You want his comfort but you have to remember things are different now. It won't be like before and your only gonna prolong your pain. Maybe you can be friends again some day but not right now. How would you feel if he met somebody else while your still in contact? you can't do that to yourself. You'l be devastated and for now you need to concentrate on yourself. I know its not easy to let go. We all have our memories and its not easy to shut somebody out but unfortunatley NC is the quickest way to recover and you'l thank yourself for it some day. Link to post Share on other sites
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