Shine Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 So I finally decided tonight that the guy I like at the moment doesn't like me. There are a few reasons I think so but mainly that his best friend found out about it recently and I figured he would say something like oh he likes u too , you should ask him out or tell my guy so that he asks me out. But he hasn't really done either. This is reaally hard for me. I thought that It would be okay if he didnt like me, but that was when I still thought there was a large chance that he did......I've been in love with this boy for so long, three years and counting since practically the first week I met him. I've had crushes on lots of guys, I guess you could say I fall for people pretty easily. But this was different. I mean, I Am reallly really infatuated with this guy. I love everything about him, even his flaws. I love every moment that I'm with him and miss him whenver I'm not. I've spent so many countless hours, so many sleepless nights dreaming of the day we would be together. I never really thought It would happen but Reaaaally realizing it hurts. I really felt like he was my soul mate. I ve never been so comfotorable, so myself around anyone before, I thought that he felt it too....but I guess I was wrong. How am I supposed to get over this and move on... when I've invested so much of my time and feelings into this guy...? when Is it time to move on. to give up? Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 stay away from him, and disconnect all contacts/meetings between the two of you. That's the simplest thing you can do to move on with your life. is he a friend of yours? or just someone in school? you didnt really explain your relationship between that guy and you Link to post Share on other sites
Author Shine Posted November 7, 2003 Author Share Posted November 7, 2003 Him and I are very good friends. I wish so much that I could just never see him again. Wait I take that back. as much as it hurts to see him and know he doesnt feel the same way....he means too much to me as a friend to do that. We are also science partners. I have class with him for 1.5 hrs every other weekday. I talk to him online for hours every night. So that s not at all a good option. I dun't know what to do. I have to do somehting....I just spent the last 4 hours or so sitting in front of my computer. I was supposed to be writing a paper....but that didn't get done....I was too busy thinking about him and crying...I makes me feel pathetic that he has this much effect on me. Link to post Share on other sites
monkey00 Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 NO you're not pathetic Shine, all of us will feel the way you're feeling during sometime along our lives. Stuff like this happens all the time between really close friends. there are times that we must face the reality that the opposite doesnt feel the same way as we do for them. Since you say that he means too much a friend to you to distance yourself from him...there are other things that could do to keep your mind off him. go hangout with some new people, join clubs, find a job...great place to meet co-workers and make friends also!, afterschool activites such as sports or volunteering, any anything else that keeps you busy to get your mind off him. I'd say that's the only advice ican really give you now...hope it works out for you Also, dont think about it negatively that you invested so much time into this relationship!! You know in the end you're still a winner, you've made a great friend in the process and great friends are hard to find. just think that the investment was worth it even though it did not exceed your expectations. Link to post Share on other sites
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