kaisergal Posted July 20, 2009 Share Posted July 20, 2009 [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3]Hi i want to know if i was in the wrong here. I had been friends with my mate matt for over a year he had a fiancé so didnt see anything other than a close friendship. After a year of knowing him his attitude towards me completely changed he started talking to me ages on msn,asking me if i was seeing someone now n again,texting me hi there hows u few times in the week - strange considering as he never bothered before and all of sudden was texting me, making remarks how it would be more fun if we weren’t mates, saying stuff like oh if u came over to see me i might not behave or if we go out for drink i wont be able to keep hands to myself, he made comments on how i wasn’t just any girl and even made a comment about going for a dirty weekend. He was more touchy than normal finding reasons to touch me like making a remark bout my bra by touching my strap etc....[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3]He even asked me to meet him after work the one time where he treated me ot a posh meal and was all cuddly on way home with me. I felt we were getting closer but wanted him to tell me how he felt rather than me making a fool of myself as i was single he wasn’t and it was just alot of subtle hints. Anyway he started being distant with me i didnt know why till i found out he met some girl at a nightclub week later he dumped his fiancé for her. I confronted him telling him i felt he strung me along and he totally denied what he did which i think he was lying about tbh.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] Now hes living with this girl and i feel i totally blew my chance bout telling him how i felt too late as i felt it was cheating and didnt want to hurt anyone obviously this other girl didnt Link to post Share on other sites
soda Posted July 25, 2009 Share Posted July 25, 2009 Maybe you repeated the same story to him 65,000 times and he just grew bored with you. You've repeated the same story here almost that many times and you don't even change it up. Link to post Share on other sites
samifakon09 Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 Sorry I am not sure on this:rolleyes: Link to post Share on other sites
Never Lost Posted July 26, 2009 Share Posted July 26, 2009 [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3]Hi i want to know if i was in the wrong here. I had been friends with my mate matt for over a year he had a fiancé so didnt see anything other than a close friendship. After a year of knowing him his attitude towards me completely changed he started talking to me ages on msn,asking me if i was seeing someone now n again,texting me hi there hows u few times in the week - strange considering as he never bothered before and all of sudden was texting me, making remarks how it would be more fun if we weren’t mates, saying stuff like oh if u came over to see me i might not behave or if we go out for drink i wont be able to keep hands to myself, he made comments on how i wasn’t just any girl and even made a comment about going for a dirty weekend. He was more touchy than normal finding reasons to touch me like making a remark bout my bra by touching my strap etc....[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3]He even asked me to meet him after work the one time where he treated me ot a posh meal and was all cuddly on way home with me. I felt we were getting closer but wanted him to tell me how he felt rather than me making a fool of myself as i was single he wasn’t and it was just alot of subtle hints. Anyway he started being distant with me i didnt know why till i found out he met some girl at a nightclub week later he dumped his fiancé for her. I confronted him telling him i felt he strung me along and he totally denied what he did which i think he was lying about tbh.[/sIZE][/FONT] [FONT=Consolas][sIZE=3] [/sIZE][/FONT] Now hes living with this girl and i feel i totally blew my chance bout telling him how i felt too late as i felt it was cheating and didnt want to hurt anyone obviously this other girl didnt Why would you even want to get involved with a guy like, that obviously if he was flirting with you when he had a fiance then hes gonna flirt with someone else if hes with you. Just meet some new people, all is not lost Link to post Share on other sites
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