KitKat21 Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. We have been dating for about a month and things were great at first, now within the past week or so he hasn't been answering my phone calls--he'll call me back much later saying that he didn't have his phone on him or whatever. Also he plays with my head he will say rude comments to me and ignore me when we talk on the phone like pay attention to the TV rather than me! I just want to go to his house and retrieve my stuff that I have over there and get on with my life 'cuz he obviously isn't interested anymore, but I can't seem to get the guts to do it I really don't want to let him go,but I think it's for the best. Help!! Link to post Share on other sites
*peaches1234* Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 Since you have only been together for a month and you are already questioning the stability of your relationship and how he treats you, I think you may want to re-think if this guy is the one for you. If you have doubts so soon, since it is easier to end things sooner than later, maybe now is the time. Link to post Share on other sites
santiagi Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 I would p/up my stuff and not call him and wait to see if he calls. If you call him and he doesn't answer just leave a message you just called to say hi. If he doesn't call let him go. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KitKat21 Posted November 7, 2003 Author Share Posted November 7, 2003 He has to be home when I pick up my stuff 'cuz I don't have a key to his house. I left him a message on his phone about an hour ago and said " Call me I need to talk to you about something" and he hasn't called back yet. When he does I'm gonna ask if he's gonna be home later? and if he says "Why?" I'm gonna say "'Cuz I want to come over and get my stuff" he'll probably just say "Ok" and leave it at that knowing him. I have to admit that it's gonna hurt like hell to do this but I think it's fo the best . Link to post Share on other sites
peaches1234 Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 If his only reply is going to be that, you are much better off without him girl! Great guys are out there, go find the one meant for you! Link to post Share on other sites
PigWithGasMask Posted November 7, 2003 Share Posted November 7, 2003 I agree, he doesn't deserve you. Link to post Share on other sites
ArdeaCandidissima Posted November 8, 2003 Share Posted November 8, 2003 when you go to pick up your stuff. If he's "rude" and "ignores" you, you may as well dump him. Link to post Share on other sites
Author KitKat21 Posted November 9, 2003 Author Share Posted November 9, 2003 I ended up going over to his house on Friday after work,with every intention to get my stuff and get the hell out of his life. Anyway when I get there he asks me "Whats' Up?" and I tell him that I wanna get my stuff and go. Well he goes and starts being an angel and kissing on me,then he pulls out wine glasses and pours me a glass of wine--needless to say I drank too much and ended up crashing over his house and sleeping with him ! Well Saturday comes,I get up late afternoon and go home and he calls me to tell me he's gonna take it easy so I didn't see him. I called later on in the evening to see how he was doing,and he never called me back- -AGAIN!!! I remember a conversation we had on Friday where he said"Just because I don't call you or wanna see you one day,doesn't mean everythings over,so chill" I keep putting that into perspective to justify why he never returned my call,but I still feel kind of hurt and mad at the same time Link to post Share on other sites
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